Do you think you will learn something by being robbed at gunpoint?
Well, after you have initiated contact with your ex, you will want to set up the "1st Date".
AND...the MOST important part, the secret and the part nobody else will tell ya...is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.
Okay?
No, not just plain 'dinner and movie'.
Because...well...it's BORING...and does not create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding experience.
In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.
Why?
You are losing out on a sociologically proven principle if you just opt for a plain old boring 'dinner and movie'.
Bond = Emotionally charged experiences
We shall look at it from another perspective.
So last time you went to the bank. Do you still remember the person standing in front of you.
How about behind you?
I believe not. Me too.
Consider...
What if you are robbed at gunpoint?
Maybe the robbers could not open the safe. They are screaming and shouting, will big guns in their arms. The tension just feel so strong.
You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.
You are shaking and trembling, being scared out of your life.
"Oh no!"
"Where are the robbers?"
"Are they behind me?"
"Are they watching me?"
You slowly move your eyes and then you see a sweet old lady lying right beside you.
She looks a little like Grandma, and you come out of your own haze enough to realize that she is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.
You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours and give her a little squeeze that says..."it's gonna be all right."
So...
Let me ask you.
Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?
And then...
Will she forget you?
That is impossible!
Now...I'm not saying to go rob a bank on your first date! LOL.
But you should plan your date such that it is an emotionally charged one. It is best that you can pack several mini-dates within a few hours.
And how about a short roller coaster ride. - 15437
Well, after you have initiated contact with your ex, you will want to set up the "1st Date".
AND...the MOST important part, the secret and the part nobody else will tell ya...is the date HAS to be EMOTIONALLY CHARGED.
Okay?
No, not just plain 'dinner and movie'.
Because...well...it's BORING...and does not create a bonding...or in our case a RE-bonding experience.
In fact, you want to pack in several emotionally charged mini-dates in a span of a couple hours.
Why?
You are losing out on a sociologically proven principle if you just opt for a plain old boring 'dinner and movie'.
Bond = Emotionally charged experiences
We shall look at it from another perspective.
So last time you went to the bank. Do you still remember the person standing in front of you.
How about behind you?
I believe not. Me too.
Consider...
What if you are robbed at gunpoint?
Maybe the robbers could not open the safe. They are screaming and shouting, will big guns in their arms. The tension just feel so strong.
You are lying face down on the cold bank floor and can see your breath fogging up the tile below.
You are shaking and trembling, being scared out of your life.
"Oh no!"
"Where are the robbers?"
"Are they behind me?"
"Are they watching me?"
You slowly move your eyes and then you see a sweet old lady lying right beside you.
She looks a little like Grandma, and you come out of your own haze enough to realize that she is even more terrified than you. She is softly sobbing.
You slowly reach out and take her hand in yours and give her a little squeeze that says..."it's gonna be all right."
So...
Let me ask you.
Are you going to EVER forget that older lady?
And then...
Will she forget you?
That is impossible!
Now...I'm not saying to go rob a bank on your first date! LOL.
But you should plan your date such that it is an emotionally charged one. It is best that you can pack several mini-dates within a few hours.
And how about a short roller coaster ride. - 15437
About the Author:
You will learn more about things like emotionally charged dates in The Magic of Making Up. You'll also discover psychological tactics and techniques you can use to get my ex back when you date your ex again.
