Tuesday, March 17, 2009

How Do I Know If My Ex Still Love Me

By Jeremi Hany

Is your ex showing you more interest recently? Is you ex more interested to go out with you now? Is your ex flirting with you more often? If you answer yes to all the above questions, you can be hopeful. But still, you need to be careful. Think twice before jumping back to the relationship.

There are no doubts that these are common signs that your lover wants to get back together with you. Nonetheless, it is advisable not to jump right back into things. The best approach is probably to play hard to get, in moderation of course. Most likely, your ex will respond very well to it.

You are advised not to jump right back into your relationship because doing so may push your lover away instead. Chances are, if your ex is showing interest in you, it is because you are playing hard to get. This makes him or her even more interested in you.

Usually, when he or she breaks up with you, or when you break up with your lover, it is natural that both of you will start to miss each other. Therefore, both of you will have this desire to get back together. This is especially so for a relationship that is at least 1 year or longer. Your ex is very likely to miss you because of the many sweet memories that both of you shared when you were together.

Nonetheless, other than those happy memories, there will also be some "not so happy" ones in the mix. If you are trying to figure out if your ex is still interested in getting back together with you, most likely, your ex is thinking about the same thing for similar reasons.

Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon.

And worst of all, they may see this as a way to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

This is common, and a lot of people find themselves wondering "does my ex want to get back with me?", but the truth is, its better to get a feel for the situation before you act. In reality, if your ex does want to get back with you, playing hard to get (in moderation) is the best scenario because it will prevent you from getting hurt if your ex is not really serious about getting back with you. - 15437

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