Isn't that great if there are 'magic words' that will cause your ex to call you back voluntarily?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Isn't that great?
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions people have when they are trying to put their relationship back together.
Therefore, I am going to answer this question, "How can I get my lover to call me back or reply my text messages and instant messaging?"
BUT...
1st Warning!
You need a complete strategy.
If you decide to use this technique alone, without an 'overall strategy or plan, you may risk damaging the relationship more than if they never call you back.
What Should Not Be Said!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
and worse...
Place you in a lousy 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
Pleading - For example
"Jonathan, call me please. It is already the 5th time I have called you. We really need to talk."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Jane, I need to talk to you urgently. Call me back as soon as you see this."
By now, you probably see what is wrong with those two approaches.
So, I shall not ramble on and on...
Taking Advantage of The Power of Self Interest and Curiosity
The two most powerful forces in a human's mind are
*Curiosity
and
*Self Interest
Now, here is that BIG SECRET!
Once you combine those 2 powerful ingredients, you will have a super effective recipe that will perform 'magic'.
Therefore...
Let us see what you should say that will be effective almost every time.
Using a very friendly tone of voice:
"Hi Jonathan, this is Jane. I just want to let you know how much I appreciate you for what you have done for me. Call me because I want to say thank you to you personally."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
Jonathan will find it hard to resist. He will wonder what has been done that makes you appreciate him. And even better, he will feel good because of the positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly...
Your 2nd Warning!
It is extremely important to have an underlying strategy before you call.
If you decide to use this technique without a good underlying strategy, it may result in more damage if your ex did call and you didn't handle it properly.
Ok?
What I want to say is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is even more important than getting your lover to call you back.
Make sense?
Have a plan before you proceed! - 15437
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Isn't that great?
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions people have when they are trying to put their relationship back together.
Therefore, I am going to answer this question, "How can I get my lover to call me back or reply my text messages and instant messaging?"
BUT...
1st Warning!
You need a complete strategy.
If you decide to use this technique alone, without an 'overall strategy or plan, you may risk damaging the relationship more than if they never call you back.
What Should Not Be Said!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.
and worse...
Place you in a lousy 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
Pleading - For example
"Jonathan, call me please. It is already the 5th time I have called you. We really need to talk."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Jane, I need to talk to you urgently. Call me back as soon as you see this."
By now, you probably see what is wrong with those two approaches.
So, I shall not ramble on and on...
Taking Advantage of The Power of Self Interest and Curiosity
The two most powerful forces in a human's mind are
*Curiosity
and
*Self Interest
Now, here is that BIG SECRET!
Once you combine those 2 powerful ingredients, you will have a super effective recipe that will perform 'magic'.
Therefore...
Let us see what you should say that will be effective almost every time.
Using a very friendly tone of voice:
"Hi Jonathan, this is Jane. I just want to let you know how much I appreciate you for what you have done for me. Call me because I want to say thank you to you personally."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
Jonathan will find it hard to resist. He will wonder what has been done that makes you appreciate him. And even better, he will feel good because of the positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly...
Your 2nd Warning!
It is extremely important to have an underlying strategy before you call.
If you decide to use this technique without a good underlying strategy, it may result in more damage if your ex did call and you didn't handle it properly.
Ok?
What I want to say is...
What you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is even more important than getting your lover to call you back.
Make sense?
Have a plan before you proceed! - 15437
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