Do you want to get your ex back after they dumped you for wronging them in some way? Maybe you cheated on them or were too controlling or you fought and argued with them all the time. At some point, they got fed up and dumped you.
Now you've learned a lesson or two. You are sorry for what you've done. You want them back. The good news is that you can recover from the damage you caused the relationship and win them back, if you follow an emotionally powerful proven plan. Plus, you don't need to wait 30 days or longer to get your ex back, you can often repair the damage in hours.
One of the very first things to do to get your ex back starts inside you. You need to admit and own up to the fact that you did them wrong. You hurt them. You caused damage by your actions. Your actions hurt your mate to the point where they "lost" their love for you.
Why is admitting to ourselves that we wronged our mate so important? Because we naturally don't like to take the blame for what we did. We like to project the blame for our problems onto others or stress or whatever. Sometimes we even blame our ex for making us wrong them!
Once you've acknowledged to yourself what you did, the next step is to admit it to your mate. You say in your own way "I wronged you." You don't try to explain or defend or blame anything else. You man or woman up and admit that you did them wrong.
Look, when you get hurt by someone, it is natural to want to know that the person understand what they did wrong. You don't want to hear a bunch of excuses and rationalizations. When you've wronged your mate, they often can't begin to forgive until they hear that you are at least taking responsibility for your poor behaviors.
The normal mistake we make when we wrong our mate is to keep saying I'm sorry til we're blue in the face. A better approach is to start this way, by owning up to what you did and taking responsibility for it. This is emotionally powerful for your ex to hear.
So instead of beginning with endless I'm sorry's, do something more powerful first. Own up to yourself that you did them wrong, them admit it to them without excuses. This is a good way to begin to fix the damage you caused and make way for them to consider taking you back. - 15437
Now you've learned a lesson or two. You are sorry for what you've done. You want them back. The good news is that you can recover from the damage you caused the relationship and win them back, if you follow an emotionally powerful proven plan. Plus, you don't need to wait 30 days or longer to get your ex back, you can often repair the damage in hours.
One of the very first things to do to get your ex back starts inside you. You need to admit and own up to the fact that you did them wrong. You hurt them. You caused damage by your actions. Your actions hurt your mate to the point where they "lost" their love for you.
Why is admitting to ourselves that we wronged our mate so important? Because we naturally don't like to take the blame for what we did. We like to project the blame for our problems onto others or stress or whatever. Sometimes we even blame our ex for making us wrong them!
Once you've acknowledged to yourself what you did, the next step is to admit it to your mate. You say in your own way "I wronged you." You don't try to explain or defend or blame anything else. You man or woman up and admit that you did them wrong.
Look, when you get hurt by someone, it is natural to want to know that the person understand what they did wrong. You don't want to hear a bunch of excuses and rationalizations. When you've wronged your mate, they often can't begin to forgive until they hear that you are at least taking responsibility for your poor behaviors.
The normal mistake we make when we wrong our mate is to keep saying I'm sorry til we're blue in the face. A better approach is to start this way, by owning up to what you did and taking responsibility for it. This is emotionally powerful for your ex to hear.
So instead of beginning with endless I'm sorry's, do something more powerful first. Own up to yourself that you did them wrong, them admit it to them without excuses. This is a good way to begin to fix the damage you caused and make way for them to consider taking you back. - 15437
About the Author:
You can discover specific Proven Reconnect Methods for getting your ex back in a book about Get Your Love Back Now. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Mamma Couldn't Teach You here at Help For Relationships.
