Friday, March 6, 2009

Get Your Ex Back to Your Arms (esp: Como recuperar a tu pareja)

By Dan S.C. Reynolds

If you really think that you and your ex are meant to get back together, then you need to learn how to get her back. Learning how to get her back is not necessarily difficult, but it does take some thinking and some planning if you really do want to get the results you seek.

Even though it may seem counterintuitive, to start the process of getting her back you need to begin by stopping all communication for the tiem being. This is going to be very hard to do, but it will be even harder for her.

After a while she'll begin to realize how much she really needs you, and how much she misses you. Stopping all communication is one of the biggest and most vital steps in renewing things with your girlfriend.

Allow yourself to recover emotionally. If you want to learn how to get her back, you need to take the time to become emotionally controlled and calmed down. Women dislike men who are desperate, clingy or needy, so pull your life together and get over those feelings long before you consider trying to draw her back in to your life.

Try flirting with someone new. This is another step that may seem counterintuitive, but it is very useful if you want to get your girlfriend back. Start talking to other girls, that will be too much for your ex to handle. This will benefit you because it will take some of your stress away, but it will also let your girlfriend know that you are over her, which will make her jealous and make her realize how much she really needs you.

Act as if everything is cool with you. That is, you need to play it cool. She is not going to want to get you back if you are behaving depressed.

You need to make sure that you are acting as if you are having a good time, overcoming the break up and letting her know that everything is fine.

Always try to look your best. Make sure that you are dressed good and look good all the time. She will not be able to resist you. Appearance plays a large role in showing your girlfriend that you are moving on. If you look great and take the time to look your best, she will notice, and is very likely to respond positively. - 15437

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