Sometimes some tenderness is all it takes to get your girlfriend back to your arms, especially if the relationship ended up with a fight. Such an end of relationship always brings a lot of hurt feelings and a lot of emotional pain. It could be that something tragic has caused the breakup. Bad things may have happened that may have caused humiliation for both of you.
Whatever the case, your feelings were and probably still are hurt, and if you want to get your girlfriend back, you will have to work gently and try to help heal the wounds that are there.
To get her back you may have to take a close look at both, yourself and her. There may be some things about you and the way that you are likely to handle the situation that could make matters worse. It could be things that you don't realize.
There could also be some things that your girlfriend is struggling with, and that may have made her fragile. Even though those things may not seem like a big deal to you, they may be very a big deal to her.
Before you make any attempts at getting her back, make a good self assessment. You may have to go get help on finding areas for improving yourself. You have to be open to any criticism and be prepared to accept it. Be ready for any reaction you might get. The criticism may be hurt, but it will do you more good than harm and will help you to get her back. Take the advice seriously and learn to be more sensitive.
Whatever her feelings may be, they are real feelings to her. You must understand that some things may be deeply troubling her and you may have to come to her softly tenderly. When she gets upset, don't retaliate. Fighting back or getting emotional won't do anything to help your relationship. It will only shatter your love to even smaller pieces.
You have to learn how to nurture her and help her heal. You will also have to give her the time and space that she needs. The most tender touch that someone can get isn't physical at all. It comes with a sense that you understand and that you are there for her.
There is a time for knocking some sense into someone but there is also a time for showing some tenderness and compassion. Know when those moments are and try to find the best way to act in them. True love will often require you to act and respond to things that don't seem natural to you. If the relationship is important, you will make those adjustments. Tenderness may not come to you naturally but one way or another, you will probably have to learn how to do it if you want to get your ex girlfriend back. - 15437
Whatever the case, your feelings were and probably still are hurt, and if you want to get your girlfriend back, you will have to work gently and try to help heal the wounds that are there.
To get her back you may have to take a close look at both, yourself and her. There may be some things about you and the way that you are likely to handle the situation that could make matters worse. It could be things that you don't realize.
There could also be some things that your girlfriend is struggling with, and that may have made her fragile. Even though those things may not seem like a big deal to you, they may be very a big deal to her.
Before you make any attempts at getting her back, make a good self assessment. You may have to go get help on finding areas for improving yourself. You have to be open to any criticism and be prepared to accept it. Be ready for any reaction you might get. The criticism may be hurt, but it will do you more good than harm and will help you to get her back. Take the advice seriously and learn to be more sensitive.
Whatever her feelings may be, they are real feelings to her. You must understand that some things may be deeply troubling her and you may have to come to her softly tenderly. When she gets upset, don't retaliate. Fighting back or getting emotional won't do anything to help your relationship. It will only shatter your love to even smaller pieces.
You have to learn how to nurture her and help her heal. You will also have to give her the time and space that she needs. The most tender touch that someone can get isn't physical at all. It comes with a sense that you understand and that you are there for her.
There is a time for knocking some sense into someone but there is also a time for showing some tenderness and compassion. Know when those moments are and try to find the best way to act in them. True love will often require you to act and respond to things that don't seem natural to you. If the relationship is important, you will make those adjustments. Tenderness may not come to you naturally but one way or another, you will probably have to learn how to do it if you want to get your ex girlfriend back. - 15437
About the Author:
While this is a great start, you can carry things further with other ways of getting her back For an English version you can visit how to get ex girlfriend back, and for a Spanish version visit recuperar a tu pareja at GiveMyExBack.com
