Do you want to get your ex back even though you "wronged" them? Perhaps you were too controlling or abusive or you committed infidelity. Your ex drew a line, closed off their heart to you, and left the relationship.
Now you've learned a lesson or two. You are sorry for what you've done. You want them back. The good news is that you can recover from the damage you caused the relationship and win them back, if you follow an emotionally powerful proven plan. Plus, you don't need to wait 30 days or longer to get your ex back, you can often repair the damage in hours.
The first thing proven method to getting your ex back after wronging them is to admit to yourself that you did wrong them. You did something or somethings that hurt them. You caused them to go from a heart full of love for you to a heart full of sadness or anger or pain about you. You did that. You cheated on them or you argued and fought with them and they finally had it.
Why is admitting to ourselves that we wronged our mate so important? Because we naturally don't like to take the blame for what we did. We like to project the blame for our problems onto others or stress or whatever. Sometimes we even blame our ex for making us wrong them!
The second step is to then admit this to your ex. Dont make excuses, dont try to explain, dont say it didnt mean anything. Talk to your ex and fess up. In your own words say I wronged you. This is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Look, when you get hurt by someone, it is natural to want to know that the person understand what they did wrong. You don't want to hear a bunch of excuses and rationalizations. When you've wronged your mate, they often can't begin to forgive until they hear that you are at least taking responsibility for your poor behaviors.
Until we know that our mate understands that cheating was wrong, or being too controlling was wrong, we arent ever going to be sure they wont repeat the bad behavior. And so we cant start to forgive. If you want your ex to forgive make sure one of the first things out of your mouth, before you ever say Im sorry, is to say I wronged you!
Instead of starting with an apology, there are several steps that should take place before you get to Im sorry. Admitting to yourself that you wronged your mate and then admitting it to them is a good first start. - 15437
Now you've learned a lesson or two. You are sorry for what you've done. You want them back. The good news is that you can recover from the damage you caused the relationship and win them back, if you follow an emotionally powerful proven plan. Plus, you don't need to wait 30 days or longer to get your ex back, you can often repair the damage in hours.
The first thing proven method to getting your ex back after wronging them is to admit to yourself that you did wrong them. You did something or somethings that hurt them. You caused them to go from a heart full of love for you to a heart full of sadness or anger or pain about you. You did that. You cheated on them or you argued and fought with them and they finally had it.
Why is admitting to ourselves that we wronged our mate so important? Because we naturally don't like to take the blame for what we did. We like to project the blame for our problems onto others or stress or whatever. Sometimes we even blame our ex for making us wrong them!
The second step is to then admit this to your ex. Dont make excuses, dont try to explain, dont say it didnt mean anything. Talk to your ex and fess up. In your own words say I wronged you. This is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Look, when you get hurt by someone, it is natural to want to know that the person understand what they did wrong. You don't want to hear a bunch of excuses and rationalizations. When you've wronged your mate, they often can't begin to forgive until they hear that you are at least taking responsibility for your poor behaviors.
Until we know that our mate understands that cheating was wrong, or being too controlling was wrong, we arent ever going to be sure they wont repeat the bad behavior. And so we cant start to forgive. If you want your ex to forgive make sure one of the first things out of your mouth, before you ever say Im sorry, is to say I wronged you!
Instead of starting with an apology, there are several steps that should take place before you get to Im sorry. Admitting to yourself that you wronged your mate and then admitting it to them is a good first start. - 15437
About the Author:
You can discover specific Proven Reconnect Methods for getting your ex back in a book about Get Your Love Back Now. Johnnie S Laney teaches relationship and emotional intelligence courses and you can get the free course 7 Vital Relationship Insights You Mamma Couldn't Teach You here at Help For Relationships.
