If you are a man, looking to join an Adult Dating Site, we strongly recommend you read up about the sites you are looking into, read some reviews and do some basic homework before you spend any money on them. There is a problem endemic to adult dating, which if you are not wary, could distract you from what you are supposed to be doing (ie. meeting women in real life) while emptying your wallet at the same time.
The biggest issue men face on dating sites, adult dating sites in particular, is many women don't join the with the intention of meeting you, they join them with the intention of fleecing you. These women will always be hot, so you'll always be tempted.
This is a brief run down of how the scam works. You join a dating site and pay your membership fee. You see a bunch of girls you'd like to meet and contact them with an email. After a couple of days, you get a few replies. Having communicated a couple of times, these girls will then ask you to join them at their personal site so you can communicate easier.
If you are interested in this woman you will probably follow her instructions andfollow her to the site, which is another membership website. You'll need to join up to this one to find the woman you were speaking to. This one will have all manner of great feature, interactive webchat etc, all of which you can use once you hand over your credit card.
They need your credit card to charge you either for the new membership fee, or in a pay per view fee structure where you have to pay every time you talk to the girls on the website. You may find the girl who originally invited you to the site and have a chat to her, this will cost you MONEY, money which will leave your pocket and go directly into hers.
Soon enough the original website you joined will bill you for you next month's membership. And then it will hit you. Not only have you not met any girls yet, but you haven't even been using the website. What the hell happened to the month? That's right, you spent it webcamming.
Further you will realise that you have spent way more than you budgetted as you will have paid them to talk to you on their webcams. And finally (and hopefully by now) you'll realise these girls never actually want to meet you. So its all lost time and money.
This type of scam is a danger to men at most dating sites. The owners of many sites though take responsibility for this type of thing and try hard to verify many of their members in an attempt to protect their paying members. This is why site selection is important if you are going to join one. If you want to meet people in real life and not just online, do your research before you hand over your credit card. Only join the reputable dating sites.
The second way you can avoid falling into this trap, is by setting a rule that you will not follow women who want you to join another website, no matter how hot they are. Lets look at the facts here. The purpose of joining the original dating site was to find women to introduce yourself to. Thats it.
Once that is done, the website's job is over. From here, you are supposed to correspond, exchange numbers, chat and then meet in the real world. So once you have met someone and started corresponding, what possible purpose is there to joining another site? You have met her already!
One last idea you can try is to only ever be a member of one dating website at a time. So no matter what happens, never join a second dating site until you have quit the one you are already a member of. This will ensure you test each website individually and remain true to online dating. Ie. You will use the site to meet women for dating. Only quit and join the next site if you are not getting acceptable results.
Now, if you are still not getting a response from real women by your third adult dating site, there is probably something amiss with you profile and your internet manner. Women respond to different things online than they do offline. So if this is the case, do something about your internet dating style before you spend any more money on dating sites. - 15437
The biggest issue men face on dating sites, adult dating sites in particular, is many women don't join the with the intention of meeting you, they join them with the intention of fleecing you. These women will always be hot, so you'll always be tempted.
This is a brief run down of how the scam works. You join a dating site and pay your membership fee. You see a bunch of girls you'd like to meet and contact them with an email. After a couple of days, you get a few replies. Having communicated a couple of times, these girls will then ask you to join them at their personal site so you can communicate easier.
If you are interested in this woman you will probably follow her instructions andfollow her to the site, which is another membership website. You'll need to join up to this one to find the woman you were speaking to. This one will have all manner of great feature, interactive webchat etc, all of which you can use once you hand over your credit card.
They need your credit card to charge you either for the new membership fee, or in a pay per view fee structure where you have to pay every time you talk to the girls on the website. You may find the girl who originally invited you to the site and have a chat to her, this will cost you MONEY, money which will leave your pocket and go directly into hers.
Soon enough the original website you joined will bill you for you next month's membership. And then it will hit you. Not only have you not met any girls yet, but you haven't even been using the website. What the hell happened to the month? That's right, you spent it webcamming.
Further you will realise that you have spent way more than you budgetted as you will have paid them to talk to you on their webcams. And finally (and hopefully by now) you'll realise these girls never actually want to meet you. So its all lost time and money.
This type of scam is a danger to men at most dating sites. The owners of many sites though take responsibility for this type of thing and try hard to verify many of their members in an attempt to protect their paying members. This is why site selection is important if you are going to join one. If you want to meet people in real life and not just online, do your research before you hand over your credit card. Only join the reputable dating sites.
The second way you can avoid falling into this trap, is by setting a rule that you will not follow women who want you to join another website, no matter how hot they are. Lets look at the facts here. The purpose of joining the original dating site was to find women to introduce yourself to. Thats it.
Once that is done, the website's job is over. From here, you are supposed to correspond, exchange numbers, chat and then meet in the real world. So once you have met someone and started corresponding, what possible purpose is there to joining another site? You have met her already!
One last idea you can try is to only ever be a member of one dating website at a time. So no matter what happens, never join a second dating site until you have quit the one you are already a member of. This will ensure you test each website individually and remain true to online dating. Ie. You will use the site to meet women for dating. Only quit and join the next site if you are not getting acceptable results.
Now, if you are still not getting a response from real women by your third adult dating site, there is probably something amiss with you profile and your internet manner. Women respond to different things online than they do offline. So if this is the case, do something about your internet dating style before you spend any more money on dating sites. - 15437
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Having recognised the number of charletons at adult dating sites, Jayde Johanssen recommends men research dating sites robustly prior to spending their cash
