There are a lot of common mistakes men make when it comes to meeting women, but very few are more common than a man waiting for the right time.
A great opportunity presents itself - a nice looking girl, alone. But for some reason, the circumstances don't really seem ideal.
He then does one thing that hurts him far worse than any circumstance.
HE WAITS.
And he keeps waiting until the right time comes, or he misses his opportunity all together. And guess what? More often than not - the right time NEVER comes!
Past experience has taught me that this concept of a "right time" is one of the biggest fantasies you can harbor.
It is also one of the biggest things that will hold you back from meeting the girl of your dreams.
Seriously.
What you're really doing is just giving yourself an excuse not to approach the girl you want to meet. You allow yourself the opportunity to give into your nerves and fears, and ultimately end up blowing your shot.
So the moral of this story is - there is NEVER a right time to meet a girl.
Understand, you have to seize opportunities as they present themselves, even if the situation isn't ideal.
The only thing that ever gets results is taking action. Walking up to a girl and talking to her is guaranteed to get you a result. Standing around waiting for the perfect time will not.
Try not to give into your fears and insecurities. Instead, try not to think at all! As soon as you see a girl you like, walk up to her and start talking.
It doesn't matter what you say. Starting the conversation by saying "Hi!" then introducing yourself is just fine. The important thing here is that you take advantage of your opportunity to meet a girl.
Even if things don't turn out the way you hoped, that is preferable to letting the opportunity pass you by and never knowing what could have been. - 15437
A great opportunity presents itself - a nice looking girl, alone. But for some reason, the circumstances don't really seem ideal.
He then does one thing that hurts him far worse than any circumstance.
HE WAITS.
And he keeps waiting until the right time comes, or he misses his opportunity all together. And guess what? More often than not - the right time NEVER comes!
Past experience has taught me that this concept of a "right time" is one of the biggest fantasies you can harbor.
It is also one of the biggest things that will hold you back from meeting the girl of your dreams.
Seriously.
What you're really doing is just giving yourself an excuse not to approach the girl you want to meet. You allow yourself the opportunity to give into your nerves and fears, and ultimately end up blowing your shot.
So the moral of this story is - there is NEVER a right time to meet a girl.
Understand, you have to seize opportunities as they present themselves, even if the situation isn't ideal.
The only thing that ever gets results is taking action. Walking up to a girl and talking to her is guaranteed to get you a result. Standing around waiting for the perfect time will not.
Try not to give into your fears and insecurities. Instead, try not to think at all! As soon as you see a girl you like, walk up to her and start talking.
It doesn't matter what you say. Starting the conversation by saying "Hi!" then introducing yourself is just fine. The important thing here is that you take advantage of your opportunity to meet a girl.
Even if things don't turn out the way you hoped, that is preferable to letting the opportunity pass you by and never knowing what could have been. - 15437
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