Sunday, March 8, 2009

True Love and Its Meaning in Life

By Jacob Gatsby

Love is all about purity and to have that purity in a relationship is hard to find and that in turn means that it is hard to find true love. Once you find true love it is a challenge to keep the true love from dissipating.

The challenge lies not only with you as you need to be unconditional in the love but also you will need to very much amenable to other persons desires, likes and dislikes.

Let us define true love in today's world. True love means that you care about the person and other person also loves you in the same vein. There are no conditions and strings attached to your love. True love is all about caring and compassion you have for the other person.

The main thing is that you should not be blind in love and if that happens then you will be the main sufferer. That will mean for you is that if your love is not being reciprocated in the same manner then you need to explore the reason for the same. If the reason is that you have a partner who does not have the same feelings for you then you need to reevaluate your love and relationship.

The importance and the individuality of each person in the team should be intact. That can be achieved in love by having a compassionate and a balanced approach for each others feelings. The feelings should be of mutual admiration and respect. The other person should not feel that the feelings are getting trampled under the burden of expectations.

The equality and individuality of each person should be of prime importance. Everyone wants to be respected and loved. The other person should have that respect for you and hold you in high esteem as well as reciprocate your feelings about unconditional love. This is the true essence of love and this will ultimately be the foundation of a great relationship. If these things are missing then there will be no basis for a relationship to exist. - 15437

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