One way to get ahead of the curve when it comes to gaining and keeping a woman's interest is to give off an aura of desirability. Women will flock to men who are confident and display high self esteem. It's instinctive. If a man displays his this sort of self-assurance, in a subtle manner, he'll relay the message that's he's strong and exciting.
Portraying ourselves in the right way is one of the most important things we'll ever do, so it's very important to get it right. Here are a few key tips:
1. Be vague, don't show too much interest - unless you absolutely have to.
2. Show confidence in yourself as a man, your virility is important and don't you forget it.
3. Tease and torment her. Don't be too eager; give her a chance to come to you, too.
If you can maintain a show of mystery, you'll seem more exciting. Any woman who actually wants to be seduced will appreciate some fun and if you reveal all about yourself then you leave her nothing to discover, and when I say discover I don't mean the 20 children you had in 10 years to 15 different women! I mean facets of your personality that she would really like to see with a touch of old fashioned romance. Small gestures that reveal just a tiny part of you; whether it's a little bit of 'chivalry' every now and again - a gentle kiss on her hand when she's expecting more, or sending her flowers with a sexy message inside when you know she is dining with girlfriends. You want to appear as the man a lot of women would want.
Impressing her friends by romancing her will give you a leg up in your efforts to keep her. They might set their sights on you, and she'll sense this and try to tighten her grip on you. When doing this, remain subtle. Don't make a show of impressing other people all the time when you are around her, otherwise you'll come across as a borderline creep. And that's a line you don't want to cross.
Don't chase her constantly. Remember to back away time and again and don't give an explanation unless you think it is troubling her, and if it is give her a good reason, not an excuse, a reason. The idea is to make her wonder where you are, and what you're doing - within reason. The aim is to seduce, not torment.
Use lingering looks when you do see her, just every now and again. You want to convey your message subtly, not shout from the tree-tops. Women are intuitive by nature and can sense when someone isn't genuine, or if they're going overboard purposefully. If you feel you are losing her, then you need to act fast. Anything which can be perceived as a sacrifice for her without you making a meal of it will help. You can create your own scenario if needs be, but remember, you aren't there to hurt her - you want both of you to enjoy yourselves and if you plan 'too' much then there's a strong chance something will go wrong.
Treat her properly. She'll reciprocate and it will be rewarding for both of you. Think about how you liked to be treated. Don't you think she'll want the same, on a basic level? Care and respect is the name of the game. When she is ready, she'll give you the hint, so don't push the issue, no matter how frustrated you get. If you have truly gotten to know her, you'll know when the time is right, and you can take things from there. - 15437
Portraying ourselves in the right way is one of the most important things we'll ever do, so it's very important to get it right. Here are a few key tips:
1. Be vague, don't show too much interest - unless you absolutely have to.
2. Show confidence in yourself as a man, your virility is important and don't you forget it.
3. Tease and torment her. Don't be too eager; give her a chance to come to you, too.
If you can maintain a show of mystery, you'll seem more exciting. Any woman who actually wants to be seduced will appreciate some fun and if you reveal all about yourself then you leave her nothing to discover, and when I say discover I don't mean the 20 children you had in 10 years to 15 different women! I mean facets of your personality that she would really like to see with a touch of old fashioned romance. Small gestures that reveal just a tiny part of you; whether it's a little bit of 'chivalry' every now and again - a gentle kiss on her hand when she's expecting more, or sending her flowers with a sexy message inside when you know she is dining with girlfriends. You want to appear as the man a lot of women would want.
Impressing her friends by romancing her will give you a leg up in your efforts to keep her. They might set their sights on you, and she'll sense this and try to tighten her grip on you. When doing this, remain subtle. Don't make a show of impressing other people all the time when you are around her, otherwise you'll come across as a borderline creep. And that's a line you don't want to cross.
Don't chase her constantly. Remember to back away time and again and don't give an explanation unless you think it is troubling her, and if it is give her a good reason, not an excuse, a reason. The idea is to make her wonder where you are, and what you're doing - within reason. The aim is to seduce, not torment.
Use lingering looks when you do see her, just every now and again. You want to convey your message subtly, not shout from the tree-tops. Women are intuitive by nature and can sense when someone isn't genuine, or if they're going overboard purposefully. If you feel you are losing her, then you need to act fast. Anything which can be perceived as a sacrifice for her without you making a meal of it will help. You can create your own scenario if needs be, but remember, you aren't there to hurt her - you want both of you to enjoy yourselves and if you plan 'too' much then there's a strong chance something will go wrong.
Treat her properly. She'll reciprocate and it will be rewarding for both of you. Think about how you liked to be treated. Don't you think she'll want the same, on a basic level? Care and respect is the name of the game. When she is ready, she'll give you the hint, so don't push the issue, no matter how frustrated you get. If you have truly gotten to know her, you'll know when the time is right, and you can take things from there. - 15437
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