Part of the art of seduction is making the woman you desire feel incredible attraction for you. Understand that attraction isn't something people are consciously aware of. It's something that's triggered from deep within them.
If you want to have the ultimate power and choice with women, you need to leave the woman no choice but to feel some sort of attraction for you.
This isn't to say you should try and force her to like you, since this will never work. Nor should you try and convince or bribe her to like you. Instead, you'll have to guide her down a path that is designed to create attraction, based on the emotions you can make her feel.
Although developing your sense humor and personality are crucial to succeeding with women, this article isn't about attracting women through telling jokes or entertaining them.
This is about understanding the very nature of what women find attractive in men, and using it to get you results!
The majority of men think attraction has to do with physical preference. So many guys think that if you aren't a woman's type, you're out of luck.
Some guys develop their personalities, thinking that's their ticket to stoking women's bellies with an endless supply of attraction. Developing your personality can help, but only if it's coupled with something else.
When most men see a woman throwing herself at an average looking male, they think, "He must have some type of mystical and innate appeal."
Well there isn't anything mystical or inborn about that guy's appeal. At a certain point he stumbled onto doing something to women that hardly any other guy knows exists.
The secret to which I am refering is none other than TENSION.
So what exactly is tension?
It is an emotional amalgamation: excitation, with some fear. A sense of uneasiness. Intrigue and worry. Seemingly opposing qualities.
The more emotional tension you create, the faster and more powerful the attraction is.
This tension will not only create this attraction, but it will also compel women to act on the attraction they are feeling!
Most guys can spark the tension, but few of them know how to cultivate it to the point where the woman is practically begging you to kiss her!
You have to think of the creation of attraction as a loop - something you do over and over again, never stopping, never relenting. The steps to do so are as follows:
1). Tension is sparked.
2). Tension is increased
3). Tension is released.
4). Repeat Steps 1 through 3.
Good movies have this structure. If you break down every great movie out there, you'll notice the movie begins by introducing conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension inside the viewer. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax.
The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama.
After it's end, the movie should push that tension again, encouraging you to see the sequel should it happen.
When you begin this never-ending series of building and releasing and then re-building tension, before long the girl you're with is going to feel compelled to act on the attraction she's feeling. - 15437
If you want to have the ultimate power and choice with women, you need to leave the woman no choice but to feel some sort of attraction for you.
This isn't to say you should try and force her to like you, since this will never work. Nor should you try and convince or bribe her to like you. Instead, you'll have to guide her down a path that is designed to create attraction, based on the emotions you can make her feel.
Although developing your sense humor and personality are crucial to succeeding with women, this article isn't about attracting women through telling jokes or entertaining them.
This is about understanding the very nature of what women find attractive in men, and using it to get you results!
The majority of men think attraction has to do with physical preference. So many guys think that if you aren't a woman's type, you're out of luck.
Some guys develop their personalities, thinking that's their ticket to stoking women's bellies with an endless supply of attraction. Developing your personality can help, but only if it's coupled with something else.
When most men see a woman throwing herself at an average looking male, they think, "He must have some type of mystical and innate appeal."
Well there isn't anything mystical or inborn about that guy's appeal. At a certain point he stumbled onto doing something to women that hardly any other guy knows exists.
The secret to which I am refering is none other than TENSION.
So what exactly is tension?
It is an emotional amalgamation: excitation, with some fear. A sense of uneasiness. Intrigue and worry. Seemingly opposing qualities.
The more emotional tension you create, the faster and more powerful the attraction is.
This tension will not only create this attraction, but it will also compel women to act on the attraction they are feeling!
Most guys can spark the tension, but few of them know how to cultivate it to the point where the woman is practically begging you to kiss her!
You have to think of the creation of attraction as a loop - something you do over and over again, never stopping, never relenting. The steps to do so are as follows:
1). Tension is sparked.
2). Tension is increased
3). Tension is released.
4). Repeat Steps 1 through 3.
Good movies have this structure. If you break down every great movie out there, you'll notice the movie begins by introducing conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension inside the viewer. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax.
The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama.
After it's end, the movie should push that tension again, encouraging you to see the sequel should it happen.
When you begin this never-ending series of building and releasing and then re-building tension, before long the girl you're with is going to feel compelled to act on the attraction she's feeling. - 15437
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