Friday, March 20, 2009

Over 50, Lonely And Seeking Friends

By Robert Barra-Hayes

The Internet has become a way of maintaining contact with the outside world for many people. This may be especially true for the older generation. Many may be home a lot of time either due to an infirmity or caring for a spouse or loved one that is housebound. This is a way they can keep an outside link. There are many chat rooms for seniors as well as those that are open to anyone. It may be comfortable for some older adults to talk with people of their own age.

Be Aware of the Dangers

However, one thing they must be aware of when it comes to chat rooms are those who peruse these websites looking for unsuspecting victims. The dangers of chat rooms should be one thing everyone educates themselves on before joining one. There are many that are perfectly safe, but knowing what to watch for can help you to avoid becoming a victim.

A few safety rules when joining a chat room can help to keep this an enjoyable place for you to go and meet new friends. The main thing to remember when joining a chat room is to never give your address or any other personal information online. Even if the person you are giving it to is only interested in friendship, you are putting your personal information out there for anyone to see. If someone asks for this personal information this should immediately set off some warning bells. Why would they be interested in knowing your information?

Many times a seemingly innocent friendship has resulted in problems for those who are too trusting. Treat anyone you talk to online as a potential threat when it comes to information they could use to gain access to your bank accounts, home address, daily schedule or any assets you own. There are people who may impress you as being caring and concerned but they are good at doing this. It is how they gain trust.

People have lost their entire life savings because they trusted someone who they met online. Its actually not as difficult as you may think for a scam artist to get access to your bank account using some of your personal information. These criminals are professionals at what they do, so be very careful " they will use some very clever means to try to get your information. Lonely senior citizens who have no nearby family or friends are often targets for these scammers, which makes it especially important for the older generation to be cautious online.

Choosing Safe Chat Rooms

People over the age of 50 may find that a safe chat room; one which monitors the profiles of its users and has safety systems in use is the best way to go. Of course, you should always do some research into the chat room to make sure that it is reputable " a good chat room can be just what older people who have limited opportunities to socialize elsewhere need.

In the situation of an older person who is caring for an infirm spouse or family member full time, they may have very little time to get out and about, leaving them little time for friends. However, chatrooms offer these people the opportunity to engage in conversation with others; something which is a welcome break from caring for their family members.

In fact, they may be able to speak with others who are in a similar situation and give each other emotional support. It can be extremely helpful to speak with someone else who is in the same situation as yourself.

Another situation may be an elderly person who has no one to talk to or visit. They may be miles away from their family. Their husband or wife may have already passed on and they may be lonely. This is a great way for them to meet people their own age and with whom they have things in common. For some, this could be the highlight of their day. They may look forward to the time they spend on the Internet talking with friends they have made in a chat room.

For young and old alike, chat rooms are a totally new way to interact with other people all over the world and make friends who share their interests. A safe chat room is a great way to take advantage of this opportunity to socialize with your own age group and make some new friends who share your interests! - 15437

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Flirting Without Words, Part 1

By Joseph Matthews

Recently I wrote that verbal flirting is just a small portion of overall flirting.

And I meant it. Unfortunately, a good portion of men don't understand this, and they blow it before they even speak to a woman.

So we need to make sure that doesn't happen to you. Let's take a look at some parts of the equation of flirting here.

Generally, flirting starts with eye contact.

So say you look at a girl, and she looks directly back at you. Wow, that can be uncomfortable huh? That depends entirely on you and how you feel about yourself.

If you feel good about yourself, then this is exhilarating. If that's not the case, it can be really scary.

Let's just say you are comfortable with yourself. The rush happens, and she holds the gaze a bit too long. This generally is a good sign.

If she doesn't meet your gaze, then it probably means she's not interested. Or, it could mean she's very shy or insecure in her surroundings. Many people are intimidated by large clubs. She might be.

Take a look and see how she's reacting to others. If she isn't making eye contact, then she might just be that way.

Going forward, let's see what she does with the eye contact. Does she break it, but look again quickly? That's a good sign, but don't be in a hurry to go talk.

If she smiles, it's a VERY good sign!

Before you rush in and start looking for the signs, take some time to learn this process. Often, we'll have the wrong of it when starting something new, as we have an idea of how these situations work, but don't really know them. Take the time to learn about this.

Sometimes, you'll get a full on stare and smile, but when you arrive, you'll get a cold response. This is NOT your fault, so don't think you did something wrong.

What happened there? I can't say, but I can make an educated guess based on the surroundings. Sometimes women are incorrigible flirts who are actually in a relationship. They just like the thrill of flirting, and their men don't mind. And so on and so forth.

Take a positive position with what you did. That's the key to success throughout the flirting stage.

Once you reach the flirtee, you should initiate the conversation. You know she's at least interested in speaking to you, so don't worry about "blowing it". That will only lead to a self fulfilling prophecy.

After the introduction, when you start to speak, there is an interaction between you and her that is natural, and is accepted almost universally. Once you begin speaking, eye contact will be broken by the speaker, looking back when it feels natural. Overall, when you are speaking, you'll be looking at her half the time, give or take. Keep it short, as this is bantering, and gaze at her when you are done speaking. That's the cue for her to talk.

At that point, she'll more than likely respond the same way. Now, when she is speaking, glance at her more than you were while talking. This shows you are interested in what she is saying. Make the looks brief, but you should be looking at her about two thirds of the time while she's talking.

It does require some practice. Put in your hours though, and you'll be able to use your eyes as well as any pickup artist out there. And it will definitely change your perspective on flirting!

Coming soon, I'll have more articles to broaden your perspective of non verbal flirting. Thanks for reading! - 15437

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Getting Past Loneliness

By Joseph Matthews

Let's face it - being lonely sucks!

Not many people like being alone. We're social creatures that mostly display an aversion for being alone. I think all of us seek love.

However, thanks to the advent of television and the internet, more and more of us are lacking any real human contact because we no longer have to leave the house to get our information, entertainment, or even our "social" fixes.

Because of this, our ability to socialize can become greatly impaired. We suddenly don't want to go out in the world. We don't know how to meet new people. Even in a large city of millions of people, no one really knows how to meet each other.

So we go on being lonely, and feeling helpless about our situations.

But the fact of the matter is we are NOT helpless! Being lonely is not something that is forced on us, it's something we choose to experience because we do not make the effort necessary to escape it.

Here are a few things you can do right away to stop being lonely and start filling your life with new and interesting people.

1. Get out of the house!

All too often, people are lonely because they spend too much time ALONE. They are content to whittle away the hours of the day by watching TV or reading a book, or doing laundry. That's not to say you shouldn't do these things, but staying inside your home all day will do nothing to help you meet people.

You should set aside some time - every day if you can - to get out of the house and go somewhere there are other people. It doesn't matter if it's a mall, a sporting event, a trip to the grocery store, or whatever. Just get out there!

2. Talk to people!

Getting out of the house is one thing; getting out the house to meet other people is completely different.

Failure to interact with others is no more productive than staying home and reading a book. If you go out to a club and stand in the corner by yourself the whole night, that is exactly what you are doing.

If you want to meet new people, you have to TALK to them! There is no way around this.

Talk to both guys and girls, just to get warmed up. The more people you talk to, the easier it becomes.

3. Get contact information

Once you meet people, it's important to get their phone number or email address - it doesn't matter what as long as you get some way to communicate with them in the future!

Talking to people will only get you so far. You'll have met them for the night. But you want to build up a social circle around you so that you always have great people in your life.

When you meet someone you like and want to be friends with or want to date, do not be afraid to get their contact information so you can talk with them again!

4. Follow up

After you meet someone, don't just move on and forget about them. Contact them again! Talk on the phone. Find some time to hang out. Go to a movie. Go to a bar. Go out to eat.

Follow up and hang out. The more time you spend with someone, the quicker you build a relationship with them.

The key to eliminate loneliness is by having a lot of relationships. The more relationships, the less lonely you'll be.

Always be meeting new people and develop new relationships. Have fun! Get to know someone new. Before long, you'll have so many great people in your life, you won't remember what it was like to be lonely. - 15437

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Make own Biodiesel

By Marcus Parker

Biodiesel, as an alternative fuel, has a number of benefits, but the biggest plus point should be the fact that anyone can make Biodiesel at home. Imagine being able to make your fuel for your vehicle or even power your entire home with the energy you created in your garage? That would translate into quite a lot of savings for you.

It can be quite easy when it comes to making Biodiesel. If you can, it is a great idea to get involved in making your own Biodiesel because you get to save more money when you use Biodiesel that is made from your home.

Looking at the Supplies to Making Biodiesel

To produce a small volume of Biodiesel at home, you only need a few sets of inputs The production of Biodiesel requires the actual ingredients alcohol substance, lye and vegetable oil. Mixing the fuel requires some input supplies: empty plastic bottles, duct tape, a blender and measuring cups. Be sure anything used for Biodiesel production is exclusively for that purpose and throw such inputs away for cooking ingredients.

Once you have gathered your supplies, you can proceed in learning the procedure to make Biodiesel

Safe Procedure

Making Biodiesel is a not hazardous. Running the risk of inviting fire or explosion is minimal. In fact, the only major area of concern, as far as safety, getting hurt due to flames. Make the temperature in your mixing procedure tolerable.

You will go through the easy process of making Biodiesel which involves blending the inputs, allowing it to settle, breaking up the byproduct and Biodiesel and then purifying the Biodiesel. The production process can take place in a few days or weeks. That depends on how clean your vegetable oil was to start with.

Small or Large Scale

Yields in Biodiesel production can be small scale or large scale. Biodiesel kits are great if you want to make a few gallons of Biodiesel at a time. If you regularly use your lawnmower or similar equipments then A Biodiesel kit makes sense. It is not difficult to use and will entail minimal inputs.

If you are after more production of Biodiesl like for fueling your automobile, you have to invest on a Biodiesel processor. This simplifies the process, so you can increase your level of production. With a processor you will need some more supplies but you can be more productive in making Biodiesel since iterative tasks can be handled by the processor. - 15437

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Unemployment written knowledge put insist on British allocations blocked down 1.4%

By Professional editor working for http://www.cheaponsale.com

Beijing early morning of March 19, the United Kingdom stock market closed down a modest, pessimistic blame unemployment data for Rio Tinto and aluminum trading prospects and Shell are also concerns about long-term growth investor mind intrusive.

As of Wednesday afternoon London time, 4:30 (Beijing Thursday 0:30), the British allocation of the overall conditions vane: FTSE 100 index plummeted 52.11 points to plug at 3804.99 points, or 1.4%. The index was a humble early gains, but gains access to dissipate afterwards midday. Continental Europe, the Frankfurt and Paris stock markets higher the stock market fell.

UK National Statistics Office advertised that, as showed by ILO benchmarks, in November last year to January this year, three months of redundancy in the United Kingdom a total of 2,030,000 staff, the redundancy rate advanced to 6.5%. Compared with the earlier three months, the United Kingdom inhabitants 165,000 out of work, the redundancy rate advanced 0.5 percentage points.

UK February the number of people applying for unemployment benefits than the 138,400 increase in January to 1,390,000, the former record month or historical record. Prior to this, economists on average expected to apply for relief will increase the number of 87,500.

Bank of Scotland Financial analyst Adam - Chester (Adam Chester) said: "If we declare that there are still some uncertainties before, today liberated the redundancy written knowledge and this month the midpoint bank's monetary guideline group in charge (MPC) assembly of the memorandum will confirm the United Kingdom economic procedure recession has moved into a appalling new point in time, monetary guideline will in addition accompany in a new era. "

It is reported that the United Kingdom Financial Services Authority (FSA) intended fresh laws to sell with the credit crunch. FSA, a blueprint is the introduction of the fresh funds and liquidity qualifications, restrictions on possession of the importing activities.

And adverse financial lesson the negatively, the field of commercial services industry reported several positive news. Royal Bank of Scotland (RBS) Chairman Philip - Hampton (Philip Hampton) in the "Financial Times" said in an interview that the RBS headquarters in Edinburgh early in 2009 from corporate banking benefited from the growth in activity.

United Kingdom - South African life indemnity enterprise of Old Mutual allocations went up 2.5%. Earlier, when the financial gathering resolved to close the offshore enterprise of the United States Life Insurance Department.

Rio Tinto (RTP) allocations plummeted 6.8%. Investors concerned that the Australian federal to prevent possible Rio Tinto Alcan and China 19.5 billion U.S. dollars value of financing transactions, and whether so Rio Tinto may be coerced to matter deserve or a discounted price to sell allocations to existing shareholders.

Royal Dutch Shell (RDS.A) allocations plunged by 3.3%. Shell securities on more than the analyst assembly held Tuesday responded. Citigroup advertised that Shell's store grading from "buy" down to "hold." Citigroup analysts incisive out that Shell's fiscal recital next year will be to slice capital expenditure tempo and predictability of a constricted measure of repression.

Macquarie Securities analysts said they found that Shell will yield the looked frontwards to time-frame from "long-term" to "2012," Shell is being postponed in scenery of some of the ventures less bewitching, which possibly means that after the 2012 Shell end wares will drop.

Venture Production's allocations soared 27%. Centrica sooner to 239 million pounds the price of acquisition of the gas producer 22 per cent stake. Centrica also said that the next possible acquisition reference VP. Centrica's allocations rose slightly via 0.3%. Construction corporation Balfour Beatty's allocations plummeted 2.1%.

FTSE 100 Index constituent stores in augmentation, SIG's allocations plunged 3.8%. The top cover of the United Kingdom supplier advertised that it would trade 341 million pounds worth of allocations, charge at the finishing charge Tuesday of 71%. SIG in addition said that the last quarter yield plunged to 86,200,000 from 6,300,000. - 15437

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Getting Back Together with a Boyfriend

By Molly Laws

It is hard when you go through a break up. We are not taught in life what to do or how to handle a break up and no one has written a guide to help us through a breakup. So what is a girl supposed to do to win her ex boyfriend back?

If you want your ex boyfriend back then these 5 simple steps should help achieve your goal:

1. The first thing that you need to do is to clear your mind of all negative thoughts that you have about yourself and the relationship. Stop blaming yourself, instead be strong and be positive that you can still win him back.

Don't let depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior.

2.Accept that the relationship in its prior form is over. All the wishing in the world isn't going to allow you to go back in time and change the way things happened. You can't let your mind keep wandering into the past.

Keep your mind in the present. Once you acknowledge that the previous relationship wasn?t right then you are on to a new start and a better relationship. It didn?t take one day to end your relationship and it will take more than one to rebuild it.

3. Let your ex boyfriend have some breathing room. Guys are funny and really hate it when they feel that girls are coming on too strong. Let him think of the relationship himself on his own terms. If you really want him back, then let him have this space or you will just turn him away.

This means you shouldn?t call him all the time, no matter how much you want to hear his voice. Don?t send him emails or letters, test messages or anything like that. Let him think about the fact that he may have made a mistake and that he is missing you. If you don?t let him have this space then having a relationship with him again may become even harder.

4. The next step is to make yourself attractive, not only for others or your ex-boyfriend to see, but more importantly, for yourself. Get a new hair do, some new clothes and if you have a few extra pound, begin an exercise program and eat a healthier diet.

Another advantage of rejuvenating yourself is the effect on your emotions and on your mind. Once you realize that you are fine, you would eventually feel nice about yourself and it will make you beautiful inside and out. You will then be happy with yourself and your confidence will have a new booster making other people notice you or better yet, your ex-boyfriend will notice you as well.

5. Last but surely not the least is to take this challenge slowly. Following the previous four steps has probably already lead your ex boyfriend to want make contact with you, especially after seeing the brand new person that came out of step 4. Don?t rush things when he does contact you, because you want the relationship to work this time around.

Just be positive in yourself, keep your appearance top-notch and always look your best and when he?s around he will surely notice and desire to be with you. Remember to keep your distance and once your ex-boyfriend realizes just what it is he has lost he will not hesitate to want you back in his arms again. And when he sees that you aren?t pinning away for him, he will be dying to have you back.

Getting your ex-boyfriend may not be an easy task and the tips will probably be hard for your heart to follow; however, when you come to do follow these tips, they will help you and your ex boyfriend to get back together. - 15437

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5 Actions That Jerks Take To Get Women, Part 2

By Joseph Matthews

Part 2 in a 2 part series.

4. Jerks are honest about what they want.

A Jerk will approach a woman with no intention of hiding his desires. He will flirt, lust after her, and try to get her in bed that night.

The woman he's after knows immediately what he wants, and by making it so clear, he puts the ball in her court.

If not, the Jerk moves on and finds another girl. If so, then the Jerk takes her by the hand and drags her off.

This type of honesty is actually appreciated by women. In contrast, you have the nice guys who try and fly under the radar by being an asexual "friend." He hangs out, listens to the girl's problems, tries to help her when she needs it, and then all of a sudden, he springs the fact on her that he's deeply in love!

And the girl FREAKS OUT.

The reason for this is that the "nice guy," in trying to not get rejected quickly by misrepresenting his intentions, has basically built a relationship with the girl based on LIES.

And because of that, the girl has already pegged him as a "friend."

So when the guy wants to be "more than friends," the girl feels betrayed, because she's become accustomed to thinking of him in a certain way, and now he's demanding she look at him differently.

(Not surprisingly, shortly after this happens, most girls even stop being "friends" with the guy!)

Nice guys should make their intentions clear from the start. Flirt with a girl. Let her know you like her and want to date her! If she rejects you, move on until you find a girl who likes what you have to offer.

That's what the Jerks do, and it works out great for them!

5. Jerk's guard their self esteem

Often times, a nice guy will get rejected by a girl, and it will send him into a depressive spiral. His self esteem will drop, he'll get depressed and will shut himself in for the night.

Jerk's don't suffer from this problem. They safeguard their self-esteem viciously, and don't allow rejection to get them down.

This is why Jerks are Jerks! Because they will completely IGNORE rejection, and even go so far as to put down and ridicule other people to make themselves feel more important than they are.

This constant guarding of their self esteem allows them to keep pursuing their goals by not allowing them to fall into a funk of depression.

And no matter how you cut it - a guy with high self esteem is always way more attractive to women than a depressed loser.

For the average nice guy, it's important not to take rejection personally. If a girl isn't into you, it doesn't mean you're not attractive, or cool, or interesting - it just means that girl isn't right for you!

So you keep looking for one that is, and you don't stop until you find her.

Rejection can be a hard thing for anyone to deal with. But remember to keep a positive outlook. Instead of seeing it as "losing a girl," think of it like "I just eliminated a girl who'd have wasted my time if I pursued her."

You don't need to ridicule or bad mouth others to feel good about yourself like Jerks do, but you should protect your self esteem as viciously as possible, because that will keep you going.

Understand - picking up women is a numbers game. The more women you meet, the more likely it is you'll get one! Jerk's succeed due to their tenacity and ability to play the numbers. Nice guys go for one or two women a night while Jerks hit up 20-30.

And it's these five traits that allow them to do that!

You don't need to be a jerk, or even fully act like a jerk, to get women. You just need to dedicate yourself to going after what you want. - 15437

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How To Tell If You Are In A Toxic Relationship

By Jeremi Hany

Is it possible to tell if you are trapped inside a toxic relationship? Let us see:

Your partner puts you down (verbally) in front of others. While your partner says they love you, their actions don't back it up. Your partner is controlling, reading your mail or showing up at places you are just to check up on you Your partner tries to make you dependent on them. You have changed things about yourself to please them.

Toxic people make you feel ill just being around them. So, why would anyone end up in a toxic relationship? Why would anyone want to be with someone who makes them feel emotionally or physically harmed?

Well, there is usually a cycle associated with a toxic relationship. 1st it is the honeymoon. Next is the blow up. Finally, it is the reconciliation. And then, it is back to the honeymoon again.

When you just meet someone new, it is obviously the honeymoon period. It is only after a period of time do you realize that you are already trapped in a toxic relationship. Once you reach that stage, you will find it tough to get out.

You might wonder why many people gravitate towards a toxic relationship. Well, one reason is because they grew up in toxic homes. What they are doing is simply following the pattern of their childhood without even realizing they are doing so. They are simply acting out of habit. Some of them think they are not meant to be happy. While others just enjoy taking care of others.

In order to get out of a toxic relationship, the first step you need to do is to be aware of the fact that you do have choices. A lot of times, people choose to stay in toxic relationships because of their low self esteem. Very often, they suffer from depression too.

Once you realize that you have choices, the next step is to start standing up for yourself. In most toxic relationships, the toxic partner has taught you that it is all your fault. Once you buy into this, it can be very difficult to either walk away from the relationship or set new limits that can heal the relationship.

For some people, working in therapy groups can help them either get out of or redefine these horrible relationships.

The good news is that some people are able to break the cycles of toxic relationships. Some of them leave the relationship and form new, healthier bonds.

But others succeeded in mending the relationship and stay in it.

The truth is that most relationships are able to be salvaged. Sometimes it takes a little space. Other times, it takes counseling. But if both partners make an attempt, it is possible to renew the bonds in a healthy way.

The 1st thing you have to decide is that your relationship must improve or you will not hesitate to move on. If you are not willing to move on and walk away, it will be very hard for you to heal what divides you.

Once you manage to free yourself from that dependency, which is the core of that toxic relationship, you can then begin to assert yourself. Do not try nagging. Instead, just say, I need your honest opinion", "I need your love" or "I need your support".

If you don't get what you need, the other person should know that you're prepared to walk.

A healthy relationship is a two way street. In a toxic relationship, the street is only going one way. You have the power to change that, but you must take the power into your own hands. - 15437

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How to Get my Ex Back by Making Up

By Ricardo Daryans

Were you dumped by your boyfriend or girlfiend? Boy, that hurts! We have all been there. It really sucks. The good news is that there are some methos you can use to bring her/him bakc into your arms. Thing is, you have to know what those things are first!

First, you have to recognize is that it's not impossible to get your ex back. It's actually easy with the right method. You wouldn't believe how many people can't start to reach for help and instead they persist on their anger and sadness. Get a better disposition and you can get started.

Now that you really want to get this going, you have to learn what system is the appropriate one for you. Getting your ex back can be slick and you have to get the right proposal before you proceed with your plan. In the web you can find all the information you may need, but there's something you should know.

There's so much information that it's difficutl to know who to trust. Many "gurus" don't know what they are talking about and many are just trying to get yoru money before really helping you. Truth is, this happens all the times and you should be careful who you get advise from.

Still, there are a selected few who are willing to offer assistance without charging over priced information to you. Let me tell you that there's just such a person. You just have to know where to find them.

I actually know a guy in exactly this business, who's been doing it for a while and has a whole huge list of testimonials from people he's helped. I've seen the emails in his inbox myself! His site has by far the best information out there, for a fraction of the price that some people are charging. With loads of free tips and videos, I'm surprised his service is as well-kept a secret as it is!

Check out this site if you are really serious about getting your ex back. The best part is that you don't have to pay anything to check what he has to offer. Take the first step to getting your ex back and just see what information you can get for free by following the link below. - 15437

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Losing Weight After Pregnancy and Breastfeeding

By Ricardo d Argence

Women can expect to gain 25-35 pounds during a healthy pregnancy. While some people easily lose this weight, others face an uphill battle in their struggle with weight.

A lot of ladies will need help in developing a weight loss program after giving birth. If you are considering yourself as one of those mother's who worries about how to get rid of the unwanted weight overall, then there are a few things which you should follow.

A great thing to do for not only the health of your baby but also for your weight loss battle is to breastfeed. Breastfeeding helps to burn an additional five hundred calories per day. As long as you are not increasing your calorie intake while breastfeeding, then you can almost bank on dropping about one pound a week. This means that you can begin to drop some of that weight by doing nothing more then breastfeeding your baby.

Along with breastfeeding it is important to make sure that you are maintaining a healthy diet. This is not just important for your weight loss struggle, as you are breastfeeding, which means you must be extra careful with what you eat and drink. Everything you ingest ends up in your breast milk and is then passed on to your baby.

So between eating healthy and breastfeeding you should be looking at one to two pounds a week in weight loss. Make sure that you are getting in enough water and dairy as well as this will contribute to your weight loss.

Along with all of that it is important to start working some moderate exercise into your routine. You have to be careful on when you start working out. Make sure that you speak to your doctor first in order to make sure that you have clearance from him or her to workout.

Hurting the recovery process would not be on your wish list. But once you are given the green light to start exercising you should go for it. This step will facilitate weight loss, improve your frame of mind, and allow your body to bounce back from the experience.

With all you have experienced, both emotionally and physically, it is essential that you aim to remain happy and uplifted. Eating a nutritious diet and getting plenty of exercise will help prevent post-partum depression and will aid in losing pregnancy weight.

The main thing is to make sure that you are not too hard on yourself. Everyone gains weight during pregnancy, as it is a natural part of the process. Know that it is a situation that can be put back to normal and there is no reason to panic. You are in complete control over your weight loss and if you really want it done then you will be able to make it happen. - 15437

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Natural Remedies for Hemorrhoids - How Natural Medicine Can Help You!

By Joel Maxford

5000 Year-Old Health Mystery Unearthed!

When you get sick, you go to the doctor. And the doctor will, of course, prescribe medicines. You will go and buy medicines. You take them, and hopefully, you get well.

This is how the health profession goes on nowadays " a cycle of diagnosis and prescription.

If anybody were to give you herbs for medicine, you would probably say that that person was a quack.

But nowadays, studies are being conducted to see if there are really is any merit to what is called natural medicine.

Natural medicine is the use of natural methods, herbal medicines, and traditional practices to heal ailments. Every culture has a form of natural medicine. In ancient cultures, village medicine men served as the doctors of the community, passing on medical education to the apprentices that followed them.

Many categories of the healing methods fall under natural medicine. Among these are traditional medicine, complementary medicine, and alternative medicine.

Usually, natural medicine refers to medical practices that were in place before the advent of modern medicine.

This includes herbal medicine, or phytotherapy, which is prevalent in Chinese, Ayurvedic(or Indian), and Greek medicine.

Upon the advent of modern medicine, many professionals discarded the use of herbs in favor of man-made medicine. The truth that these treatments are based on the healing properties of some herbs was gone.

For example, opium, digitalis, quinine, and aspirin all have their roots in traditional medicine.

Natural medicine can be considered as a abandoned art. This does not mean that it has lost efficacy over time. In some cases, natural therapy is actually better than recent medicine. This leads some doctors to seriously consider and study the possible uses of natural medicine.

Before we continue, it is important to stress that not all the natural remedies are legitimate. It would help to only try those remedies which have been thoroughly willful and are relatively expose limitless.

Take herbal medicine for example. There are many well-documented and studied herbal remedies available. However, only those that deal with minor ailments such as cough, colds, fever, skin rashes, and its ilk are likely to be recommended by health professionals. These remedies are sometimes superior to synthetic medicine. This is because herbal medicines are less likely to cause negative side effects.

Currently there are numerous organizations that study the effects and advocacy of natural medicine " among which is herbal medicine. Some governments and health agencies openly advocate the use of natural methods since they are inexpensive and relatively risk-free.

As their studies compile, more herbs and treatments are added to the list of accepted medicines. However, many herbs and treatments have been proven to be bogus medicine. This represents a challenge for both the user and the agencies because they have to determine that the treatments they either use or advocate are legitimate.

There exist today many alternative medical treatments that fall under natural medicine. However, not all of them have been proven to be useful. You could remark homeopathy, aromatherapy, acupuncture, and other alternative health treatments. It would pay to consult the experts as to the legitimacy of these treatments.

Natural medicine should also be thought of as an accompanying medicine. Right now, the current collective medical thought suggests that natural medicine be used only to supplement accepted recent medical practices. In that case of minor ailments your expert we actually advise you to take natural therapies instead.

The procedure of recent medicine revolves around diagnosing an illness and prescribing treatments for such. Natural medicine is valuable because it suggests that treatment be not necessarily given only when sick. Natural medicine strives to make each patient practice good health lifestyle. These habits include good diet, healthy living, and the regular natural treatment.

It is this same line of thought that leads our parents to tell us to eat our vegetables. Yes, a healthy lifestyle and will do no harm to our well-being. And this is the foundation of natural medicine " may it be massage, herbal medicine, aromatherapy or others.

It is hilarious but correct that science, in its quest for excellence, is studying the learning of sages past. This, surprisingly, leads us back to the remedies nature offers. The possibilities of effect remedies to everyday illnesses in natural medicine are encouraging. So staying tuned to studying these remedies is worthwhile until we can verify that these therapies are truly helpful to our health and our people.

Today, I wanted to alert you to something will afflict 40% of the adult population (or more) at some point of their lives. It's called hemorrhoids or piles and it's basically any form of vein inflammation around the lower rectal regions.

Treatment for hemorrhoids can be as simple as a soak in a warm tub of water. Other remedies that are simple to use, include the multitude of ointments and creams on the market, as well as medicated pads and suppositories. Changing ones diet to include more fiber and water to soften stools and prevent constipation is also an effective treatment for hemorrhoids. - 15437

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Excessive Underarm Sweating and Botox

By Karlen P Olsen

Botox has been an amazing gift to cosmetics, helping to reduce the appearance of facial lines and wrinkles for millions of people. Recently, however, Botox was approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) for a new use: to treat excessive sweating under the arms, also known as hyperhidrosis.

If you or someone you know suffers from underarm hyperhidrosis, then you know the embarrassment that comes with the territory. Short of surgery, many people have had little success treating the condition and continue to live with the mortification every day. Fortunately, Botox has helped eliminate the need for surgery, while providing better results than traditional treatments for the condition.

Botox is effective in blocking the nerves that stimulate the sweat glands, something other treatments consistently fail to do. Recent studies have shown that when Botox is used to treat hyperhidrosis, excessive underarm sweating was relieved for an average period of about seven months. One in three patients studied did not begin sweating again for approximately a year and a half! So, results vary somewhat in terms of duration, but the treatment itself is very successful.

Botox is extremely effective at treating underarm hyperhidrosis, but it is not a permanent cure. Its effects can be long-lasting and relief from excessive underarm sweating usually last for over a year since the condidtion returns gradually and in the early stages, can be quite easily controlled. Additional Botox treatments can be postponed for quite a long time until the condition becomes more serious again.

The treatment can be performed in a physicians office, such as a dermatologist, and takes very little time to complete. Theres no downtime " once administered, patients can resume regular activity immediately.

Patients should choose a skilled physician with extensive experience in administering Botox. The Kopelson Clinic in Beverly Hills, California, is known for its expertise with using Botox for variety of uses, most notably in this case, as a treatment for excessive underarm sweating, or hyperhidrosis.

This new treatment has made a world of difference for Kopelson Clinic patients suffering with this condition. Its given them back their self-confidence. Its given them back their lives. - 15437

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A Beautiful Connecticut Wedding

By Jane Chatterberry

In spite of being one of the smallest states in the U.S., Connecticut is a state full of variety in its landscape and cultures. Connecticut is a beautiful place with mountains, woods, exposed agricultural lands, rivers, and a breathtaking coastline. The towns and cities run from old-time rural towns to great highly-developed cities that run across the coast. This diversity provides amazing wedding backdrops and locales but none more engrossed in American history and legend that offers unparalleled wedding venues than the Town of Mystic.

Mystic is located on the shores of Mystic River on the nationally renowned New England seashore that is located on the Long Island Sound. The town founded in 1654 is steeped in New England charm, with a downtown filled with quaint shops and restaurants. This small unassuming sea town had been in the national spotlight having been featured in movies and commercials.

For a Connecticut wedding experience for guests, Mystic is the home of two world class museums, the Mystic Seaport and the Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration. For guests that enjoy the arts, guests can enjoy the Mystic Art Center exhibiting arts from the region. Mystic is also close to beautiful award winning vineyards and wineries, cider mills and many more area attractions.

In Mystic there are plenty of hotels, inns, and bed and breakfasts to suit everyone's needs. Accommodations include hotels from well known national chains to old-time historical inns. The inns provide the guests and newlyweds with spectacular views from sheltered coves and the crisp salty air of the Atlantic Ocean. Restaurants offer a delicious assortment of cuisine, which includes fresh seafood brought in every day from the Mystic Harbor.

Mystic is famed for romanticism ever since Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall honeymooned there in 1945. Venues to consider include the stunning and sophisticated Inn at Mystic, which provides outstanding views of the horizon by the Harbor. The Mystic Aquarium is another choice to host an exquisite Connecticut wedding. Picture yourself exchanging vows in the sparkle of the sea-blue aquatic tanks. Amongst other perfect Mystic wedding locales is the Seamens Inn. This Inn is located on the lands of the Mystic Seaport and can host a memorable wedding party on the banks of the glorious Mystic River.

A great advantage of being a seaport is that Mystic is the home to several ship charters. Have you ever considered a beautiful wedding on the water? If so, the Tall Ship Mystic is one hundred seventy feet long and can hold up to one hundred fifty guests. This amazing ship provides on-deck dining and lounging and even has cabins for those who prefer nightlong stays. If you are a looking for smaller and more private wedding party, the Schooner ARGIA is the perfect pick for a wedding in the open ocean air. The 81-foot schooner can comfortably fit a party of 49 guests.

Mystic offers all the services required for a perfect Connecticut wedding. From photographers who are familiar with all the picturesque sites that Mystic has to offer, to the florists who have experience proving the floral accents needed to make a spectacular wedding. The local catering companies are serviced by great chefs who make the most of the local seafood and cuisine.

Romance and love is written all over Mystic. Just ask any of the locals and you shall see. The town is recognized as the prime location for those planning a Connecticut wedding. Mystic wedding party planners can make any style wedding over-the-top by putting together a team that guarantees an unforgettable event. To top it all off, Mystic is even known for having one the top wedding party bands according to Modern Bride. - 15437

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Thursday, March 19, 2009

Choosing Elegant Wedding Party Favors for Your Wedding

By Aaron H.

The favors for the weddings are considered small tokens of gratitude for friends and family coming together to celebrate the marriage of the bride and groom. It also gives the guests a remembrance of the wedding. There is no end to the types of favors for weddings available. The personal taste of the bride depends on the amount of money she has to spend or how much she is willing to spend. Some favors are under a dollar apiece and then they go up from there. Most brides purchase ready-made favors. The bride can decide on a theme by making a list and choosing from the list. From holiday seasons, favorite flowers such as roses, to lilies and daisies there are many themes and colors to choose from. Once the choice is made stick with it. When the wedding guest list is completed, the price of the favors for the guests should be determined. Start low to see what is available and then go up higher if necessary.

Online is the perfect place to shop for wedding supplies and special wedding favors, without leaving the comfort of home, prices can be compared with mother and selections made with ease Gone are the days of driving endlessly to get to a store only to find the prices are high, the stock is in short supply and the selection is poor. So once again, there is another day shot without much accomplished. The sources on the internet are innumerable. The above website has a terrific selection at good prices and they are not likely to run out of stock.

There are some inexpensive personalized favors for the guests that can be had such as personalized bath packages for women and children only. Make up small plastic bags filled with colored bath salts or small glass jars can be bought. Hand print small labels with the name of the bride and groom and wedding date. Wild flower seed packages with a label and a line or two of poetry. For the close family members a CD with wedding songs that have been recorded and a picture of the bride and groom in wedding attire on the label. Buy small coffee packages in the grocery stores, they come in flavors and put a tag on the top or a label giving the wedding information. Create crossword puzzles using the wedding date, names of the wedding party, etc Make sure the selections that are chosen for favors for the guests are a reflection of the taste of the bride, groom, and coincide with the general theme. If there is going to be a very large reception the favors for weddings can be bought in bulk rate. Sometimes a donation is made to charity on behalf of the wedding guests, if this is done announce it publicly at the wedding and say to what charity the money was donated. If you are not sure about what to buy in the way of favors for guests ask the relatives and friends of the family, they may come up with some very good ideas.

More often than not, the favors are ordered from a company but the bride and whomever she chooses to help her, the bridesmaids, members of the family, or friends can put them together.

Some of the packaging is really unique and lovely on the favors with little flowers on top of the boxes, colored cardboard boxes with brightly colored contrasting ribbon and neatly made bows, adding a beautiful touch to the table. - 15437

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Perfect Wedding Party Favors For Your Special Occasion

By Aaron H.

For a long time it has been the custom in America and abroad for the bride to give wedding favors to her guests that have come to pay her homage on her wedding day. To show her and her family's appreciation for their coming and the gifts they will give. Although wedding favors are not usually, the first thing the bride and groom to be going to think of when they are making out their list of things that needs attention for their wedding day to run smoothly. Wedding favors are of importance and if they are unique, that makes them so much more desirable. For a proper wedding, they have to be included in the budget, but they need not be that expensive. In fact, some unique favors hardly cost any money at all.

A personal touch from the bride can be much appreciated if she chooses to make some of the favors herself and she has the time. She might want to only do this for close family members and special friends on her side and her husband's side of the family. Sometimes just a few pieces of really good chocolate in a small colored cardboard box will sulfide, or even candy coated almonds in pretty colors.

The most unique favors for a wedding party would be custom made such as a CD of the music played in the church if it was a church wedding and if she had a vocalist and selections from the band, it is up to her to make the choices. Throwaway cameras are a nice choice as the guests can take their own unique photos. These favors do not have to be very expensive unless it is for a close family member and she wants to splurge. What the guests want is just a nice remembrance or thoughtfulness on the part of the bride, if it is something unique all the better.

When choosing unique favors try to be original, do not give exactly what other family members or friends gave. Be thoughtful in the selection. It's a good idea since people sometimes bring extra guests to have some extra wedding favors. It is not necessary to be extravagant with the extras and some sweet is often a good idea because some family member or the children can take them home and they will not go to waste.

The wedding favors can be labeled with each couple or person's name and put on a table to be picked up either as the guests come or leave or just put on the table if they are all the same. Unique favors that can be eaten by men, women, and children are a good choice, they often come in tins or packages that can be personalized with the name of the bride and groom and date of the wedding and still remain inexpensive. Key chains are always well liked and personalized hot chocolate are other things that go over well. Cookies in the shape of wedding cakes with icing decorations can be bought for the children. There is no end to what can be given as unique favors, most of all it just takes imagination and thoughtfulness. - 15437

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Current Trends In Wedding Guest Favors

By Aaron H.

Wedding favors are those small gifts that are given as a gesture of appreciation to people who attend a wedding. Giving these gifts or favors is a very old tradition and the European aristocrats had such favors as bonbonniere, which was the best wedding favor at the time and was a small trinket box made of crystal, porcelain and other precious stones. Inside these boxes were sugar cubes and other delicate confections. Almonds coated with sugar replaced these bonbonnieres and these sugared almonds are the ancestors of the current favors. Today, these favors are shared in many cultures worldwide and particularly in the United States and Canada. These favors are diverse, depending mostly on the financial capabilities of a couple and they usually complement the theme of the wedding.

The gifts that are given out have also changed from the confectionaries of yester-years to a wide range of products ranging from wines to plants or even tickets to particular events. The gift you give should be guided by how much you can spare and to realize that expensive does not always mean better. These favors should complement the theme of the wedding and they add to the beauty of the event. A good wedding favor will make your wedding memorable and you should put a lot of thought and effort into this.

Another name for these favors is wedding guest favors and the only difference between it and wedding favors is that, whereas the latter may are given to each and everyone who attends the wedding, wedding guest favors are mostly meant for the invited guests only. It is every little girl's dream to have a wedding of her dreams and these favors will ensure that she is not the only one who will remember the wedding. The manufacturers of these favors are coming up with new ideas everyday because of the competition and so you will not have scarcity of choice.

One of the new trends with wedding favors is personalized confectionaries such as chocolate bars and individual truffles. These can be personalized by writing the name of the bride and the groom on them or doing such a thing. Everybody loves confectionaries and you will not go wrong with this. Another current trend for wedding guest favors drinks such as wines or beer packs. Even those who do not take wine can give the wines away as gifts to their friends and this favor is popular many people - but you should be careful not to go over your budget with the same.

It is important to appreciate the guests that attend your wedding and one of the best ways to do this is by giving them wedding favors. Whichever gift you choose, ensure that it will be a memorable one to the guests. - 15437

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Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera - Affordable Camera with Great Features

By Fred Gagnon

Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera is a digital camera that is designed for ease of use. It is a compact and sturdy camera that gives high-quality images.

Tired of your camera that requires very steady hands and makes you wait for seconds to capture a clear, focused shot? Heres a tip. What you need is a fast camera that enables you to shoot moving objects and still gives you quality and sharp images.

Now that you understand the importance of speed in the camera, Im sure you are now thinking what kind of camera has that? Let me introduce to you the Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera. You might wonder what D40 or SLR mean, so, I will discuss each.

Nikon, one of the worlds leading brands in cameras, specializes in optics and imaging. This means that you can never go wrong with Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera because it is a quality camera.

Digital camera or digicam is a type of camera that takes still photographs and/or videos by recording hundreds or even thousands of images on a single small memory device. Meaning, unlike the old type of camera, it enables you to delete, edit or transfer photos because it does not use film.

SLR, or single lens reflex, is a built-in shutter mechanism that leads the light from the lens to the viewfinder by using a mirror system and pentaprism. This mechanism allows you to view shots more clearly and precise. And not only that, you can change the lens of this camera. Also, single lens reflex has large image sensors that produce sharp images.

D40 is a point-and-shoot digital camera produced by Nikon. This model is a very lightweight camera that you can carry anywhere and has all the features that you need for taking quality images. Features offered by the Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera includes 6.1 Megapixels with 3.0x DX zoom Nikkor 18-55mm f/3.5-5.6G ED II lens, 200-1600 ISO sensitivity range, large 2.5 230,000 pixel LC monitor, 2.5 fps continuous shooting, improved menu user interface, pictbridge direct printing, in-camera retouching, built-in speed light.

To simplify each feature, here are the pros of the Nikon D40 Digital SLR Camera:

User-friendly and simplier than other point and shoot cameras.

Light and fits well in hand.

Affordable.

Produces crisp, beautiful pictures.

With great battery life.

Fits other Nikon lenses.

Very durable.

With a responsive and fast shutter.

It has a bright viewfinder.

With sharp LCD color monitor.

With a relatively high resolution.

Allows in-camera image editing.

Lens included.

A user-friendly camera that gives sharp, crisp and great images, the Nikon D40 Digital SLR camera is a perfect camera for everybody. And because it has a near-zero lag time, it is ideal for action photography. Now you can capture images with excellent quality. - 15437

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On Single Use Waterproof Cameras

By Randy Rushmore

If a waterproof camera sounds like a costly proposition to you, consider getting a disposable one. Technology has really moved on, bringing different options in photography within everyone's reach, and disposable waterproof cameras are a great option for occasional picture-taking in wet conditions.

Unless you plan to take a lot of pictures in wet surroundings or underwater, you may find that buying an expensive piece of electronics is unnecessary. Buy a disposable waterproof camera for travel, trips to the swimming pool, for your children, or for a party, and you will have all the picture-taking kit that you will need in most occasions.

Most people think that disposable waterproof cameras are only for underwater use, but consider for instance going to a party. For a tiny added cost, you can get a lot of extra security for your pictures. And parties are an ideal place where to bring a single use camera.

If you don't know most people at the party well, you need not worry that your expensive camera may get stolen. And if you are the host, disposable waterproof cameras are cheap enough that you can leave several around so that your guests can take funny pictures.

If you go swimming, whether in a pool or on the seashore, make sure to bring a disposable waterproof camera. You will find them very useful, and it's easy to take great underwater pictures in low depths, even if you are not a professional photographer. In any case, remember that you cannot go too deep as disposable waterproof cameras are not very pressure-resistant. If you are scuba diving, you need different equipment.

Imagine how great it will be to later view the photos of your day at the pool, taken with a waterproof disposable camera, and to see underwater shots of you and of the people who were with you. If you are a good photographer you may even have taken a split picture, half in the water and half outside!

If you are going away for a couple of days, to visit a city, to hike or simply to laze on a beach, bringing a disposable waterproof camera instead of a fully ledged one also makes sense. For a beachside vacation, it is almost an imperative, just as much as when going to the pool.

Disposable waterproof cameras are truly useful while travelling, even if you are not going anywhere near a beach. They will save your day in a spell of bad weather, as well as in exceedingly damp conditions. And if you happen to drop your disposable waterproof camera into a river, you can fish it out and it will still work.

Children love taking pictures, and it makes a lot of sense to let them use disposable waterproof cameras. You can give these to your own kids if you have any, or to the children of friends and family as a gift. The offspring will love the cameras, and they won't risk breaking them by making them wet. Also, if they break them anyway, not much damage is done.

As you can see, reasons to get a disposable waterproof camera abound, and in many situations you will get rid of a lot of worry and problems compared to getting a normal digital camera. On the Internet you can find plenty of retailers that sell them, and assuredly many shops near your home sell them too. As they are so cheap, you could even get a few since they are so useful. - 15437

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Scanning Service Information

By Pete Fontaine

If you're not going to enlarge your digital scans then don't pay to have them scanned at a higher resolution than 300 dpi. Even if you will be enlarging them you are probably wasting your money. 600 and 1200 dpi scanning services do not mean better scans, but they do mean higher prices. For your typical photographs 300 dpi is the wisest choice.

There might be a reason to scan at 600 or 1200 dpi if you were scanning from a negative because they are designed to to hold and transfer much more information than a photograph surface. So if you plan to enlarge images try scanning the negatives. Resolution that would require scanning a photo's surface at higher than 300 dpi just isn't there.

Wasting money is not the only reason to scan at 300 dpi. Photo scanning beyond 300 dpi produces huge files that slow down just about any use of your scans. Editing, viewing, and working with your files will be slower, and possibly much slower. And you will probably have to change the size of your scan smaller to use it for just about anything.

Top notch photographers don't need to be coached on scanning practices as they already understand the issues. But if you are trying to gather some information to use for your own scanning project or to purchase scanning services, I recommend the relatively extensive discussion of scanning practices by Wayne Fulton at www.scantips.com

Most respectable photo scanning services will save your scans as a high quality jpeg. This is the most popular format. Jpeg files that are highly compressed to produce smaller files loose bits of information and can reduce the quality of your photos. High quality jpegs are compressed very little and lose very little information. You can reduce the file size later as required.

Whether you rotate your own photos after scanning or the scanning service does it make sure that you dont rotate the original scans. Most photo scanners require that your photos be in a stack when you send them in without regard to their orientation. Because your photos are recompressed during the rotation process you may loose bits of information and that can reduce your image quality. So keep your master scans untouched and use a copy to rotate or manipulate.

Some photo scanning services offer automatic photo enhancement. What you need to know is enhancement, or any manipulation, can cause jpeg files to be re-compressed and cause some quality loss. Make sure your scanning service provides you with a complete set of master scans and then a copy of them for the enhancements. Don't ever use the originals to make changes. Always use a copy. You may find that you want to work on special photos yourself. When you do, always start with a fresh copy of the master scan.

After your photos are scanned you can use any number of photo editors to correct their appearance. Somewhere around photo number 200 you might think more seriously about using an automatic photo enhancer. There are lots of them on the market, but the trouble is finding the one that actually works. Some photo scanning services offer automatic photo enhancement. This is usually great for making most of your photos look better, but it doesn't make them all look perfect. Usually a combination of manually editing those very special photos and using an automatic enhancement on the rest is the best solution. - 15437

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Fixing The Nation's Public Education System

By Marcus Martin

President Obama has vowed to improve our nation's education system, which is in a crisis. Given the public education system's responsibility in educating over 50 million children, the severity of this crisis cannot be overstated. A broken education is not only a serious threat to our nation's economy, but also a threat to our freedom; after all, "Education Is Freedom." Although the problems with our public education system are vast, there are certain areas that President Obama must focus on first.

President Obama first needs to improve upon the No Child Left Behind Act, a law that has great potential in theory, but up until this point, has been failing in practice as well as funding. Today, there are more and more children who are left behind in the current educational system; a system which seems to be driven by passing standardized tests instead of teaching kids a broader range of curriculum geared towards preparing students for the workforce and college.

There is also the issue of the academic achievement gap which continues to persist. The President's own academic success gives us a great example of what is possible in the lives of minority and disadvantaged children if this gap is eliminated. In order to address the academic achievement gap, however, both academic and neighborhood conditions must be simultaneously addressed, especially since the current economic crisis may have the potential to disproportionately impact poor neighborhoods. Creating a supportive atmosphere -- both in school and at home -- that promotes learning and education is what needs to be done to help close the gap.

The high school drop-out crisis is another problem the President must confront head-on. Many high schools across America are experiencing drop-out rates that are 50% or higher. President Obama has already promised funding for intervention strategies, including personal academic plans, increased instruction and learning time, and mentoring. Those promises must be carried out as well as President Obama being able to create common vision in young people that their education is important, not only to themselves, but to the overall health of the nation.

In addition to finding creative ways to address the high school drop-out crisis, President Obama must also focus on enhancing the public education system's ability to perform a better job in adequately preparing more students for college -- a process that must begin as early as middle school, given the academic deficits so many students in the public school system face. Students who arrive at high school already behind academically find it harder to catch up in time to be prepared for the academic rigors of college. Some studies suggest that over 50% of all freshmen entering college will need to take remedial courses. Appropriate remediation before students head to college is not only more effective, but also less costly to the students themselves, who need remediation, and to our nation, which often shares in the cost of paying for the remediation work once these students enter college.

Finally, a lesser-discussed problem is the nation's inability to produce more students who are graduating in science, technology, engineering and math (STEM) fields. To stay competitive in a global economy, protect our nation's infrastructure, as well as be in effective in our national security efforts, we must begin to significantly increase the number of students who are graduating in STEM areas. - 15437

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All About Bridal Shower Favors

By Aaron H.

Every bride loves to have bridal shower favors to give off to friends a few days after the big day. If the bridal party is at a spa or certain resort, you as a bride would like to end the whole party by giving the attendees gifts. The gifts you offer are known as bridal shower favors or wedding shower favors. When planning your bridal party, it can be a challenge deciding on which bridal shower favors will suit your guests. The best bridal shower favors you can give anyone are those that represent you as the bride. It has to be something that will make the attendees remember you or feel a close connection with you.

Some tips for consider when deciding on what bridal shower favors to purchase is to look at the theme of the party. You can decide on a theme of friendship, in this situation you can get gifts that represent how you feel about each of your friends. For example, you have a friend who has always loved to invite you to her place for meals or cooking sessions. With this kind of person you can get him/her, a set of heart shaped measuring spoons. These will always remind her of the special time you spent with her. Remember to choose items that have sentimental value compared to the price that comes with it.

Some people decide on food as wedding shower favors because it can be shared and at the same time, everyone can celebrate together. When choosing food treats, you can use culture to guide you. If your friend is African then get her some African treats, although he/she may eat the food and finish that instant it will still remind her that you took the time to think of him/her.

Other popular wedding shower favors are shower favor trees especially during the winter, where the tied favors are put around a tree centerpiece tree, tasty treat shower favors with which you can never go wrong with unless the food served is really bad and which has unique personalized confectionaries and other things such as jam jars with personalized labels. Others are double-duty shower favors, bon-voyage shower favors for those leaving after the wedding and no-fuss favors where guests just pick up their gifts on their way out and such gifts can be key chains or other small things. The list is endless and you can create your theme and your original gifts.

You should note that although your guest may enjoy tasty treats, the bridal shower favors that will best serve you are those that will be remembered for a long time such as those that the guests can see every day. These include such things as plants and cultural bridal shower items that the people will appreciate because they will feel like you really put some thought into the gift. Cosmetic bags are also welcome, but before making any decision, you should consider the type of people you expect and the amount of money you can spare. - 15437

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Secrets Revealed Of How To Learn Telepathy

By Georgia McClough

Every human being can learn telepathy. This ability translates to sensing and transmitting feelings over a distance, without using any of the five physical senses or using words. This kind of mind to mind communication works instantly and can even cross enormous distances.

If you think you can't learn telepathy, it's time to reconsider. Most of us have already had a telepathic experience of some kind without knowing it. We don't realize it's this kind of experience, or don't even know it's happening. Ever suddenly thought about someone you haven't thought about or talked to in a long time, then received a call, letter or email from them shortly afterwards? That's telepathy.

What happened was, one or both of you telepathically made contact with the other, transmitting emotions of affection, longing, wonder at their current state of affairs, or something like that.

This telepathic contact encouraged them to get in touch with you. Perhaps you were the first person to think of them, and the other person received your emotions and felt like contacting you. Or maybe they contacted you, felt your return thoughts of them without your being aware of it, and that was the reason they chose to make contact another way. They may have even been planning to get in touch, and you perceived that intent telepathically before the contact ever happened.

Most people have reasons that they believe they can't learn telepathy. Some people have religious beliefs that tell them telepathy is a form of sorcery, or related to the devil. Because of this, these people will suppress any telepathic experiences they have, and will never try to expand their abilities. Many people have been told that telepathy is just superstition, due to the lack of scientific evidence available.

One real barrier that people find when learning telepathy is believing a particular myth. This idea is that regular, spoken language is less important or useful than telepathy, that's it's inferior. Some people think that as our telepathic abilities decayed over time, we were forced to learn speech. This isn't any more true than the belief that telepathy is a product of Satan. Words and telepathy can go together just like the words to a song go with the music.

In this analogy, the music is telepathy and the lyrics are spoken language, with each working to enhance the other. Words have the ability to define and clarify telepathic messages, which is why we have them. Unfortunately, dependence on spoken language causes telepathy to be neglected and forgotten.

So, if your interest is peaked and you want to open up new doors of perception and closeness with other people, how can you learn telepathy? It's actually not nearly as difficult as it sounds to the uninitiated. All it takes is what everything takes: practice.

First, you should partner up with someone, preferably a long-established friend, who shares your open-minded attitude about the possibility of telepathic powers. In fact if it's possible, partner up with someone who burns with the desire to learn it (as hopefully you also do). When you're starting out you need all the positive reinforcement you can get.

The next thing you must do is separate from your partner. You don't have to go far, but you need to be unable to see one another or to give one another conscious or unconscious cues. Relax as much as you can, since tension can really interfere with the process. Clear your mind of stress and concerns. Make sure you have a way of getting in touch with your partner once you're done - a telephone is an excellent choice.

You'll want to have an agreement about who will go first. That person will visualize the other person in their mind as clearly as possible, then think about a connection between you. Common imagery involves a light surrounding both people or a thread of energy connecting them.

Now, 'send' your thoughts about something through that thread or from one light to the other light, like a telephone call or Web cam transmission. Keep your thoughts simple and make them as clear as you can - think about a photograph of your kids you have in front of you or something simple like that for now.

Now, when you feel that this transmission has gone through, contact the other person and ask them if they saw anything. Then, compare notes to see how effective the process was. Once you're done with this, your partner should try sending to you.

When you are beginning, if you don't feel that you were able to transmit after 15 minutes, stop for a while. Your first attempts should be kept brief so that you don't exhaust yourselves and so you don't become frustrated and allow negative feelings to settle in.

If you're interested in learning telepathy, keeping your thoughts positive and not giving up are important. Once you start getting results, you'll be amazed at the new world that's opened up before you. - 15437

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Coming Up With Unique Wedding Favors

By Aaron H.

Many people, especially women, dream of their weddings since birth and when the day nears, most girls will know their bridesmaid, the theme for their weddings, the dress they will wear, and exactly which wedding party favors they are going to use. There are many companies and online companies out there to help you with choosing and supplying of materials for your wedding favors such as AmericanBridal.com and Topweddingfavors.com, but these should be used only to help guide your decision. The final decision should be yours, this will make the wedding feel more personal, and it will give you more joy.

When coming up with wedding party favors, some of the most important things to consider are that the gifts should not bee too expensive because there are other financial obligations to take care of and you should consider the expected guests so that the gift can be appropriate. The reasons for having wedding party favors and numerous and the first one is to say thank you for those in attendance. Every girl dreams of having a magical wedding that will be remembered for many years and which will be the talk of the town and so a well-chosen party favor will serve this purpose.

Another reason why a couple should consider wedding party favors is that it is a tradition probably carried out by the couple's parents and any wedding lacking these favors will seem odd and people might start jumping into conclusions as to possible reasons for its absence. Another reason is that there is no good reason why you may skip the gifts because the gifts are usually very cheap - you simply have no excuse! Another reason for wedding party favors, which maybe might not be very noble, is that guests expect these gifts and you should have them to avoid disappointment. Yet another reason is that these favors help to enhance the mood of the wedding and they keep people excited and happy if the gifts are well thought through - no body hates gifts. If you fear is time, then you can have it done by the many companies dealing with favors.

The need for unique wedding favors is because all weddings are different and special in its own way and this favor will make the wedding feel more personal to the couple. Another advantage of such a favor is that they are much easier to keep in memory compared to common gifts. With such a favor, you can make something real cheap which would cost you a lot more in the shops. Another reason you should consider these favors is that they are likely to make the wedding more exciting and different because they usually help to bring out the theme more.

A couple can decide to come up with unique wedding favors which are far better than conventional gifts mostly because all weddings are different and special and unique wedding favors will make the wedding feel more personal to the couple. Another reason why one should seriously consider these favors is that these unique wedding favors cheaper than their equivalents in shops. Another reason is that unique wedding favors are easier to remember and they are likely to make the wedding more fun and exciting. Whatever you chose, just make sure the favors are memorable and exciting. - 15437

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Useful Cold Sore Tips To Stop Cold Sores!

By Grant Dougan

Cold sores not only cause ugly sores around the lips and mouth, they can also hurt so much that it becomes disabling. To provide welcome pain relief and treat a fresh outbreak, and to prevent new cold sores from occurring, try the following useful cold sore tips.

Let's get started by going over the triggers that cause cold sores.

A virus known as the Herpes Simplex Virus I or HSV I is the root cause of cold sores, also called fever blisters. Don't let the name confuse you ? this virus is completely distinct from the one that causes genital herpes lesions.

HSV I is a chronic virus that is easily passed from one person to another. It is so common that it is present in 80% of the population, and most people get HSV I before they turn seven years old. Once you have the virus, you'll have it for life. Most of the time it remains inactive, until something happens to trigger a cold sore outbreak.

When outbreaks occur, the result is painful and unattractive sores around the mouth and lips. These happen when the normally inactive herpes virus is triggered.

Cold Sore Tips ? Preventing Outbreaks

So, how does the normally inactive HSV I virus become activated? There are a variety of triggers, including:

? Stress ? Poor immune system ? Sickness ? Pregnancy or menstruation ? Injury or irritation of the lips and mouth

Basically, whenever the body's defenses are compromised or the system is overloaded by stress, cold sores can be the result. The simplest way to avoid cold sores is to avoid the triggers that cause them.

In the case of pregnancy or menstrual-related outbreaks, hormonal triggers can't be controlled. Fortunately, there are ways to strengthen the body's defenses.

There are a variety of supplements and widely available products to prevent cold sores. A healthy diet that bolsters the immune system is vitally important, as is preventing injury or severe chapping of the lips. A good, moisturizing lip balm can calm chapped lips and help minimize the risk of cold sore outbreaks.

Cold Sore Tips ? Treatment

As they say, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, but what happens if you need to soothe the symptoms of a current outbreak?

The cold sore tips below can help you calm the pain of your cold sores:

? Try applying a numbing medicine like lidocaine, benzocaine, benzoyl alcohol, or a product that contains phenol.

? Use an antibiotic ointment to keep the sores from becoming infected.

? A good lip balm should be applied to avoid cracking and scabbing of the open sores.

? Consider taking zinc and lysine supplements. These compounds may allow for faster healing of cold sores. Zinc is also a known immune system support.

The surest way to prevent cold sores is by taking care of yourself with a whole-foods diet, exercise, and good supplement program that keeps your immune system strong and healthy. Sleep well, and make sure you learn to deal effectively with stress.

While the best course of action is a good prevention plan, if you do end up with a cold sore breakout, use these simple cold sore tips to help soothe your discomfort and end your breakout faster. - 15437

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The Best Art Ideas

By charlie reese

Sometimes, the best art and craft ideas come to you in a moment of sudden inspiration. The other day, I was fast asleep and having a strange dream. I don't remember much about it, but I remember this vivid impression of walls covered in a fine and oily moss. There was something so dramatic and frightening about these walls, and when I woke up it was both a relief and another opportunity to feel the same fear that I had the dream.

Although the dream scared me, it also gave me a fantastic art idea. There is a painting I had been working on for months and unable to complete. There is something about it. It seemed too happy " almost frighteningly happy. Everything was so peaceful, and the characters had these very stupid stereotypical smiles. The dream gave me an art idea of applying a certain kind of textured background.

I painted this mossy brownish green in the background behind the characters and slightly shaded their faces to give them a more dingy look. It really changed the way everything came together. Suddenly, the picture had a more complex and ambiguous quality to it. It seemed more balanced and honest somehow.

Then again some of my best art ideas come from the most obvious of places. I am a big Internet user, and out of every three art ideas I have, two of them probably come from the web. There are plenty of websites where people put up their favorite ideas for art as a way of sharing their craft with other people. I think it is one of the most generous and awesome things anyone can do. Do-it-yourself websites have provided me inspiration for decoration, painting, sculpture, and even making my own clothes. There are innumerable art projects I have been able to do because of the help of strangers from the web.

As a classroom teacher, my art ideas are likewise a combination of inspiration and other peoples work. It really doesn't matter so long as the kids get into it. You see, there are plenty of student art projects out there. The key is to present them in such a way that the kids will get excited. That is where the real magic of teaching happens. When you work on your own art ideas, you come in already excited and ready to get to work. With student art projects on the other hand, you have to be a cheerleader as much as a teacher. - 15437

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Outdoor Marriage: Make The Venue Look Perfect

By Cheryl Bayley

Outdoor marriage is like a dream to many, and possibly you are one of these people. You may have thought about it as an ideal setting for a long time, maybe even when you were invited to other people's weddings and thought that your one would be on a secluded beach, or in a beautiful natural park, or other similar outdoor location.

Now the day for outdoor marriage may finally be approaching, but while starting to plan the event there are lots if questions that come to your mind, and many of them are related to the setting and decoration of the wedding venue. For instance, how to make the setting comfortable? How to manage light and noise during the wedding?

All the difficulties that seem to be inherent in an outdoor wedding celebration will actually turn out to be pretty easy to solve, if only you are willing to spend the time to plan everything accordingly and systematically. And ultimately a lot of effort will probably be solved, as in most cases the ceremony and the reception can be organized in the same place.

The actual decoration may be the least of your worries, since much less will be needed than when getting married in a building or place of worship. The outdoor setting itself, the view, the present plants and other features such as rocks or the sea, will probably provide the best of backdrops, and you will only need to add slightly to it.

One very important aspect is natural and artificial lighting. Consider from where the sun will be shining on the day of your outdoor marriage, and at what time it will set. Up to what time will you have enough natural lighting, and when will you have to use artificial lights?

Make sure that your guests won't be looking directly into the sun during the outdoor marriage ceremony, and consider the effect on natural lighting on your wedding photographs and also make sure that any paths that your guest will be walking on will be well lighted after sunset.

Several other natures' pleasures could be spoiling the wedding party if you are not careful during the preparation. You should ensure that your guests are going to be protected against the elements and specifically against rain and gusts of wind. Adequate and solid protection needs to be installed, especially in the colder months.

Another thing that you need to consider for an outdoor marriage venue is the risk of wind gusts. Make sure that any candles or open fires that you use are well shielded or they may go out, or worse, ignite some of the decoration. Heavy decoration items such as wide and low bowls for flowers are good to hold down tablecloths.

Next, you need to master noise levels at the outdoor marriage venue. This cuts both ways. You need to control noise levels coming from outside, such as from heavy surf on the beach or from cars passing on a nearby road. But you also need to make sure that the noise level coming from your party is in line with local regulations. This might sound trivial, but it isn't if you are planning to end your wedding with music or with a wild dancing night with a sound system.

Another very important thing is to think about guests whose ability to walk over uneven surfaces is limited. This applies to wheelchair-bound people of course, but also to the elderly, to overweight people and to the very young. Make sure than none of your guests will find it hard or impossible to reach the venue of your outdoor marriage. - 15437

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