When it comes to getting your ex back, most books will tell you that it takes 30 days or longer to do it. They operate under the theory that time heals all wounds, so after a month your ex may have softened towards you enough to consider taking you back. This does work in some cases, but it can also be bad relationship advice in many instances. After a month or more, your ex may have moved on.
So is it really possible to get your ex back in just one day? Many times, if a relationship can be repaired, it can be fixed within 24 hours when you know what to do.
How is it possible to get your ex back in just twenty four hours? What do you do to make that happen? Well, how you go about it depends on why you broke up. If you wronged your mate or they wronged you, you need to use a different approach. But, in either case, you can begin to get your ex back into your life in just one day or so when you use some basic emotional intelligence.
Lets say you wronged your mate by cheating on them. They kicked you out last week. They were furious and hurt. They swore they could never trust you again. Can this really be repaired in one day?
Many times, yes, it can. What you need to do is to have a certain kind of conversation with them that takes about ten minutes. In this conversation, you dont apologize, at least not right away. Saying Im sorry til youre blue in the face doesnt work, as your probably already know.
There are certain steps you need to follow before you ever try to apologize. One step is fessing up to what you did. Another very important technique before apologizing is to get your ex to vent and tell you in as much detail as possible how they feel about your cheating on them.
To get your ex back requires more listening than it does apologizing! The key to getting your ex back in one day lies more in being a good listener than in what you say. When your mate has had a chance to vent their hurt feelings in a particular way, then they make room in their heart to love you again.
Allowing your mate to vent in a healing manner takes only a short time, but in that short time your ex can release most of their negative feelings, which makes room in their heart for forgiveness. The conversations that allow this take only about ten minutes, but they can support profound change in your ex's feelings about you. Once they have begun to forgive, they can begin to make room in their heart to love you again. There is much more detail to this, but the emotional intelligence required is fairly easy to learn. But rather than wait months hoping to get your ex back in most cases the right kind of conversation can begin to get you back with your mate in hours instead of months. - 15437
So is it really possible to get your ex back in just one day? Many times, if a relationship can be repaired, it can be fixed within 24 hours when you know what to do.
How is it possible to get your ex back in just twenty four hours? What do you do to make that happen? Well, how you go about it depends on why you broke up. If you wronged your mate or they wronged you, you need to use a different approach. But, in either case, you can begin to get your ex back into your life in just one day or so when you use some basic emotional intelligence.
Lets say you wronged your mate by cheating on them. They kicked you out last week. They were furious and hurt. They swore they could never trust you again. Can this really be repaired in one day?
Many times, yes, it can. What you need to do is to have a certain kind of conversation with them that takes about ten minutes. In this conversation, you dont apologize, at least not right away. Saying Im sorry til youre blue in the face doesnt work, as your probably already know.
There are certain steps you need to follow before you ever try to apologize. One step is fessing up to what you did. Another very important technique before apologizing is to get your ex to vent and tell you in as much detail as possible how they feel about your cheating on them.
To get your ex back requires more listening than it does apologizing! The key to getting your ex back in one day lies more in being a good listener than in what you say. When your mate has had a chance to vent their hurt feelings in a particular way, then they make room in their heart to love you again.
Allowing your mate to vent in a healing manner takes only a short time, but in that short time your ex can release most of their negative feelings, which makes room in their heart for forgiveness. The conversations that allow this take only about ten minutes, but they can support profound change in your ex's feelings about you. Once they have begun to forgive, they can begin to make room in their heart to love you again. There is much more detail to this, but the emotional intelligence required is fairly easy to learn. But rather than wait months hoping to get your ex back in most cases the right kind of conversation can begin to get you back with your mate in hours instead of months. - 15437
About the Author:
You can discover lots more about the relationship skills required to get your ex back in hours in a book about How To Make Up With Your Ex. Johnnie S Laney teaches emotional and relationship intelligence courses and you can get a free course here about Fix Troubled Relationships In Days.
