Monday, October 27, 2008

Think Your Spouse Might Be Cheating? Here's How To Find Out

By Doug Timlin

If you have ever wondered if your spouse is cheating on you, here's an easy way to find out. You deserve to know the truth about your relationship and whether or not your partner is treating you with the respect you deserve.

There's an easy way to get the answers you need and find out if your spouse is being faithful. This technique has three steps - let's take a look at each one.

The First Step

Your first "mission" requires to be a little sneaky, but it's not hard.

You will need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for about 15-20 minutes. When you do this, you want to choose a time where you don't run the risk of getting caught. You don't want your partner walking in on you while you are looking at their phone.

Make sure you choose an appropriate time to do this. A decent time is when your spouse has just stepped out to the store or is napping upstairs and you know you have some time to yourself.

Once you have their phone you need to look at their full call history. Look through both the 'incoming' and 'outgoing' call history lists and write down every phone number that you see.

While you are writing down the phone numbers you see you can leave off any that you recognize and know for sure where they come from. Just make sure you jot down every number that doesn't look familiar to you.

Once you are finished doing this, put back the phone and go on to step #2.

Step Number Two

Now it's time to find out exactly who your spouse has been talking to.

You can find out someone's full details by having nothing but their phone number. This includes their name, address, location details and background information.

There are databases that have been built by companies that allow you to search through to get this information. The companies that provide this service pay for access to all phone records and then make these records available for anyone that wants to "investigate" a certain phone number.

You can follow the link at the bottom of this article to try out a free sample search and see how it works. Typically you have to pay for this kind of search, but it's only a couple of bucks.

You just need to punch in the phone number and then the name and address of the person is instantly displayed on your computer screen. You will also see other background information about the person that could be useful.

You want to find a company that charges a flat rate for unlimited searches in their database. There are usually going to be quite a few numbers on the list you just made so this way you won't pay for each search you run.

Go through your list and do a reverse phone lookup for each phone number. Write down the details you find for each one as you do this.

When you have details on who owns each phone number on your list, it's time for the final step.

The Last Step

Your list is now complete - it's time to look at what your results.

The list you just made shows you exactly who your partner has been talking to on the phone. This makes it easy to spot if anything unusual is going on.

Often people will suspect that their spouse is cheating on them with someone in particular. If this is the case with you, does this name appear on the list?

And of the other names on the list, are there any that look suspicious?

In this step it will become clear to you if your spouse is potentially cheating on you.

This method gives you a simple you to quickly find out if your spouse is cheating. If you have any suspicions, follow the above steps to get the answers that you deserve. - 15437

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