Sunday, October 26, 2008

Could this the mother of all Pinay scandals ?

By Zigfred Diaz

I wrote two posts on the keyword "Pinay scandal" and it has been giving me a lot of traffic lately.

As I have pointed out in my previous article, Pinay scandal refers to pornographic pictures and videos of Filipino women. The "Pinay scandal " keyword s considered as a high trend low density word.

The first article I wrote about Pinay scandal is entitled "The real Pinay scandal." This article points out that the real pinay scandal is not that Filipino women are seen in pornographic sites online, however the real scandal is the exploitation of women and children.

I wrote another article on Pinay scandal. This time the article explained how and why you should exploit the Pinay scandal keyword. The keyword is what is known to most bloggers as a high trend low density keyword. This means that the keyword can bring more traffic that to their site. Another plus advantage of optimizing the "Pinay Scandal" keyword is that you help elminate the pinay scandal sites that contains pornography from the first pages of the search engine.

However this article is not about bringing more traffic to your site by optimizing the "Pinay Scandal" keyword. It also does not talk about the exploitation of Filipino women and children. Another type of Pinay scandal will be discussed here, one that we as Filipinos and Filipino women in particular should not be proud of.

Lately, Filipino women has filled up internet cafes in order to search for a foreign husband. There are those who are honestly looking for true love online and sadly there are women who want to marry foreigners mainly for financial reasons. These women are the ones who will do anything just to marry foreigners.

I believe there is nothing wrong if you desire that the person you marry is financially stable. In fact, it is considered a good decision to marry somebody who is financially stable even if not necessarily well off.

I am not saying that marrying foreigners is wrong. In fact I know several people, among them friends and family members who are happily married to foreigners.

I hope I am not taken out of context here. I reiterate, I have nothing against Filipino women marrying rich foreigners. That is perfectly all right with me, for as long as they marry because of true love for their foreign spouse.

The thing I am against is the motive of marrying foreigners for their money or hoping that your foreign spouse could rescue your family from poverty and bring you away into some foreign country to seek greener pastures.

It may be unthinkable but some Filipino women really do this. In fact I would go the extent of calling them as having "prostituted" themselves just to attain a much more higher standing in life. These type of women do not even care if the guy they are marrying is old enough to be their grandfathers. This type of attitude among some Filipino women is what I call another Pinay Scandal.

A much more disturbing "Pinay scandal" situation is that some married Filipino women are saying online that they are single even if they are already married. I have heard of instances wherein marriages has been broken because the wife has a "foreign" boyfriend even while she is living with her husband.

You might think that the above situation is so scandalous, but brace yourself for the ultimate pinay scandal, that is that some Filipino husbands consent to what their wives are doing. When the foreigner comes to the Philippines, the husband simply presents himself as a relative.

What a shame this brings to us as a nation. However this is really not the ultimate scandal, the mother of all Pinay scandal is not doing something about it. This is certainly the worst of all pinay scandals. - 15437

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