Monday, October 27, 2008

Think Your Spouse Could Be Cheating? Here's How To Find Out!

By Doug Timlin

If you are in a serious relationship, you may have wondered whether or not your significant other was cheating on you at some point or another. These types of suspicions are really horrible and can totally drive you nuts if you just don't know what the truth is. Fortunately, there is a simple and effective way to find out whether your spouse is cheating.

The best thing about the method I am about to share with you is that it can be done in the privacy of your home and doesn't take all that long. A lot of folks jump to drastic measures by hiring private detectives to scope out their spouse's actions. This is completely unnecessary since there are much simpler (and cheaper) ways to find out.

So what's the trick?

Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?

Find time to take a look at your spouse's cell phone for roughly 15-20 minutes. Be sure to pick a time where know you won't get "caught" checking out their phone.

Browse through their call history which is stored on the phone. Write down every number, both incoming and outgoing call numbers on a piece of paper.

Notice any familiar numbers? Leave out the numbers that you recognize and be sure to get all the ones you are curious about.

When you are done with this, carefully return the phone and go on to the next step.

Step #2 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?

Now you have the list of numbers handy, it's time to find out who the numbers belong to.

You can find out a lot of information about someone when all you have is their phone number. It's possible to find out someone's full name and address along with their background information when all you have is their phone number.

Lots of companies exist with enormous databases filled with information about phone numbers. These companies pay to gain access to this private information and then pass it off to you for your own investigations.

You may want to have a look at the sample search at the bottom of this article for more about how the searches work.

There is a small fee to use this type of search, but it isn't expensive. What you will you want to do to save a few bucks is find a company that charges a flat fee for unlimited searches. This way you don't have to pay for each individual search you run.

This is also called a "reverse phone lookup".

Go through your list of phone numbers and run a search for each one. Write down the information you find out about each one on your sheet of paper.

Step #3 - Think Your Spouse Is Cheating?

Check out your list! Now you have all the details of every person your spouse has been calling lately.

Knowing exactly who your partner has been communicating with is the key to finding out if they are "up to no good". You have this information in front of you, so look over your list to see what you can find out.

Obviously pay attention to the names that show up and the different calling patterns that you see. In this case, anything suspicious will definitely jump off the page at you.

What I love about this technique is that not only is it quick and easy, but you can do it without anyone knowing you are running a little "investigation". If you have any suspicions that your spouse might be cheating, you owe it to yourself to find out and this method will help you get the answers you need. All the best! - 15437

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