Friday, October 31, 2008

If You Think Your Spouse Might Be Cheating,Here's How To Find Out

By Phil Burnett

Recently we have been receiving a number of emails from people wondering how they can find out if their spouse is cheating on them. There's actually an easy way to do this - if you have any suspicious, you owe it to yourself to find out the truth about your relationship.

There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to "spy" on their spouse. However, you don't need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything "fishy" is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.

You will be happy to know that this "detective's trick" is fast, very easy and hardly costs a dime. You will need to follow three steps for it to work - let's look at each one.

Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

Ready to play detective?!? In this first step you are going to need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for around 15 minutes. Make sure you have enough time to look at it without worrying about getting "caught".

Make sure you pick a good time! Your spouse might have just jumped in the shower or is out with friends without their phone. Just make sure you have about 15 minutes to yourself.

When you have their phone you are going to write down every phone number that appears on both their incoming and outgoing call history lists. Most phones will keep track of the last 100 calls - write them all down.

When you are making your list, you can leave off any phone number that you know you recognize. You just want to make sure that you are writing down each and every phone number that doesn't look familiar to you.

Once you have your list complete, it's time to put back the phone and go on to the next step.

Step #2 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

Now it's time to find out exactly who your spouse has been chatting with. There's a way that you can find out someone's full name, address and background information by having nothing but their phone number.

There are businesses that put together massive databases of every phone number out there (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). They purchase access to these phone records, build their databases and then let anyone run a search on any phone number.

This type of service is available online to the general public. It's called a "reverse phone search" and will instantly how you the person's name and details right on your computer screen.

You can try a free sample search by using the link that we have included at the bottom of this article. This will show you exactly how it works.

There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use.

Now you need to go through the list of phone numbers you have and run a reverse phone search for each one. Write down the information you discover for each one on your sheet of paper next to the number.

Once you are done this step, you can move on to the last step.

Step #3 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You?

Now you have a list of all the people that your partner has been chatting with (and how often). This information makes it easy to spot any suspicious patterns about whether or not your spouse is cheating.

Look over your sheet of paper and all the names that are on it. Many people that think their spouse is cheating on them have a person in mind that they think they might be cheating with. If this is the case, do you see this name on your list?

When you know who your spouse has been communicating with, it's easy to see if there is reason to think that they might be cheating. This easy "detective's trick" gives you a simple way to discover if your spouse is being unfaithful and see if you are being treated with the respect you deserve. - 15437

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