(continued from part 1)
I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
At the same time, I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
I guess there is something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You shouldn't have to look like a pick up artist.
It's better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you want to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This gets back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Don't change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other piece...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one. - 15437
I have tried peacocking myself when I heard that other guys were doing it. I did this maybe a couple times, just to see if it worked.
When I went out I felt ridiculous and was totally incongruent with my personality.
Women pay attention to fashion and like a well-dressed man, as we all know.
When I was in my workout clothes, or was wearing something basic - like jeans and a tanktop, I noticed that some of my best pickups occurred in there.
At the same time, I'd see muscled-up guys wearing revealing spandex, or super-tight shirts at the club, and women definitely did not respond well to this.
It got me thinking... that maybe it's not how flashy or costly are the cloths should be.
I guess there is something else going on.
Actually, there are two things going on, and you must manage and balance these two things.
First and foremost, never seek approval from women. If a woman can tell that you are trying to impress her or make her like you, you are toast.
So if you come like you got dressed with a purpose of getting women's attention, they'll see you coming a mile a way and put up their defenses.
You shouldn't have to look like a pick up artist.
It's better to dress modestly, and not put too much thought into it.
However, you want to present yourself in the best way you can and not to look sloppy.
This gets back to self-expression.
You already have a sense what kind of man you are, what your "scene" is, what you think is cool.
Don't change that.
Instead, cultivate it, with these simple tweaks.
Wear colors that suites to your skin tone and hair color. This isn't rocket science. You can look online or go to n upscale men's clothing store, and ask someone about this.
Next, make sure your clothes are clean, and wrinkle free, and reasonably up-to-date. A woman should not have to worry about bringing you around her friends.
Lastly, make sure your clothes fit well, meaning, they ACCENTUATE YOUR MASCULINE PHYSIQUE.
Wear shirts that narrow your waist, and square your shoulders.
Wear pants that make your legs look long and thin.
Put on a shoes that make your feet look big and well-formed.
Groom yourself - nose, neck, and ear hairs. Get a decent haircut. Shave, or don't, but figure out what looks best and take it all the way.
One other piece...
Accessories should hang off you loosely, and have the look of a small decoration that says, "yeah, I can fuck."
I don't want to talk too much because that's a whole other topic because that's a whole other topic. Just use your intuition with this one. - 15437
