Thursday, January 15, 2009

Healing Touch - And Why it is Vital to Your Relationship

By Rebecca E. Adams

It seems so easy doesn't it - the physical and emotional expression of love and intimacy? Well atleast in the movies it looks that way.

Be honest - do you really feel a deep and intimate connection with your lover or partner? One that unites you mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically?

Never does the media explore the 'loveless' side of relationships and marriages. The experience of being together but feeling alone.

Let's face it - the bedroom is often a battlefield - the place where cunning strategies are planned, suspicions and tensions run high, defences are up, and control and submission is the name of the game.

Often associated with healers and psychics, healing can be given by anyone. As healers we can give nurture, love and healing simply through our presence, words and touch.

To heal means to restore to health or to cure.

Apply healing touch to your lover and relationship and provide support and comfort. Consciously and slowly touch and stroke their face, hands and body while feeling the love and appreciation you have for them (no matter how little!). Imagine pink shimmering heart energy flowing outward from your heart to theirs.

When you give someone the gift of healing touch - remember that less is more. A gentle look in the eyes can say so much more that hundreds of words. A conscious healing touch can slowly dissolve years of neglect and misunderstandings. A gentle stroke of the face can unleash feelings of long lost intimacy and companionship.

"I never knew how to worship until I knew how to love" --Henry Ward Beecher

Next time you are with your partner in the boudoir, tell them how you feel about them and how you want to feel with them. Express your appreciation of them and your vision for your relationship. Don't just give each other a list of wants.

Rather than a big bang or endless excitement, real love needs regular care, love and support. It's a journey of pleasure, love and care rather than a destination. Made even more fulfilling by your Healing Touch. - 15437

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