Monday, January 26, 2009

Getting Her Back After a Breakup

By Sara Summers

Winning a girl back and saving your relationship can be really difficult. You will always worry of losing the girl you love forever by making just one wrong move.

However, usually what you feel is the right thing to do is actually not the right thing to do. Many times we should follow the "counterintuitive path". What do you have to do then? So, whenever you feel like picking up the phone and calling the girl you love, stop yourself. That is the right time when you should stay cool. Also, whenever you feel like expressing your feelings out, that is the time when you should just stop thinking about the girl you love and not talk about her either.

There are counterintuitive techniques that you can use which may be new to you, but in fact, these techniques have been proven to be really effective even in the most complicated situations.

The first technique is that you must agree and accept the fact that your girl has broken up with you. It is very difficult to do but you have to do it.

You should understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together and win your girl back. The main reason is that, you should give her time to respect and miss you again.

The second technique is that you must cut off all communication. You are surprised? Trust me, this technique actually really works! In fact, it even helps you to accept the breakup. It will also show her that you are really serious about breaking up. Stopping all communication allows her to miss you and get over the reasons for breaking up. Giving some space will also be good for your mental health as well, and give you time to think clearly. But most importantly, it sets you up for the next technique on Winning a girl back. - 15437

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