Sunday, December 7, 2008

Is Your Spouse Cheating? Here's How To Find Out For Sure

By Doug Timlin

If you are married or in a relationship, you may have wondered at times whether your spouse or partner is cheating on you. It's a common worry that people have and you owe it to yourself to find out the truth. Thankfully there's an easy way to find out.

The following technique will get you the answers you need about your relationship quickly and without your spouse ever knowing you are "investigating" them. Here's what you need to do:

The First Step

Your first mission is to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for approximately 15 minutes. You want to choose a time where you can look at their phone without worrying about them walking in on you.

Look over all of the calls that show up in their call history on the phone. Make sure you look at both the incoming and outgoing calls - most cell phones will have a list for both of these call types.

As you look through the list of phone numbers, write down each one you see on a piece of paper. Any phone number that you recognize you don't have to write down but make sure that every other phone number is being jotted down.

Step Number Two

This is the key step in this "investigative" technique - you are going to discover exactly who is the owner of every phone number on the list you just made.

You can find out someone's full name, address and background information just by having their phone number. This type of search is called a 'reverse phone lookup' and will give you instant access to full details about who owns any phone number.

The companies that provide this service pay for access to all phone records so that they can build huge databases that have information on all phone numbers. All you do is punch in the phone number (it's done online) and then the person's details are shown right on your computer's screen.

As I'm sure you guessed, there is a charge for running a search, but it's only a few bucks. What you will want to look for is a company that only charges a one-time fee for unlimited reverse phone searches so that you don't have to pay for each individual search you make.

Right at the bottom of this article there's a link we included so you can use a free sample search to get an idea of how this works.

Go through your entire list of phone numbers and run a search for each one. As you do this write down the details that you uncover for each one.

Step #3

At this point your sheet of paper include the names of every person that your spouse has been talking to on the phone. This is such a huge piece of information - it's easy to notice anything suspicious when you know who your partner has been communicating with.

Go over your list and look at what you see. If there is anything suspicious it is sure to jump off the page at you. You have the name and details about every person your spouse has been talking to on their phone so it's easy to spot anything unusual.

This "investigative" technique is an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you without them ever knowing what you are doing. You need to know if your spouse is treating you with the respect you deserve and this gives you an easy way to find out. - 15437

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