Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Want You Ex Back, Stop Making These HUGE Mistakes

By Jackie Howie

When you want your ex back, you are willing to do anything. I bet you any money that you are making major that are completely screwing up your chances of ever getting back with your ex. Stop doing, what your doing now. It is not too late, if you want your ex back discover what you are doing completely wrong and why you need to stop.

This is very important, YOU CAN'T BUY LOVE. Are you sending them expensive gifts thinking this will make them want to come back? Stop, this is a waste of time and money. You cannot buy back love. Think of where and how the relationship went wrong, put your focus on this instead of trying to buy back love. Try and work on how you could have done things differently.

Thinking you did nothing wrong, this is another huge mistake when wanting to get your ex back. First determine where YOU went wrong. Apologize, admit you were wrong, yes say your are sorry. Your ex cannot be responsible for everything, some of the fault lies with you.

Accept some of the responsibility, it might be easier to blame your ex, but blaming others will not help, blame is a not a positive emotion and does not help any situation.

Guilt tripping you ex, blaming them for your misery. A really common mistake. You are the only one with power over your emotions. Why the hell would anyone want to be around someone who makes them feel guilty in their company all the time.

Live in the present, don't keep dragging up past mistakes. Don't keep blame your ex for your emotional state. Control your emotions, begin with trying to be positive.

If you want your ex back, show them you are a positive person. If you are acting like a total wreck why would your ex want to spend time with you. Would you want ot spend time with someone who makes you feel depressed.

Ringing and sending text messages many times will not make your ex want to come back. Prove to the world, your ex and most importantly to your self, that you can live perfectly well with out your ex. Your ex will hear if you are doing well. You do not have to tell them, remember absence makes the heart grow fonder. This will make your ex see you in a positive light let them do the running.

Always keep your dignity and respect, do not act needy or allow them to know how much you want them.

If you are being NEEDY or letting them know you want them too much. Keep your dignity and self respect. - 15437

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