Thursday, January 8, 2009

Get The Most Out Of Your Lesbian Dating Service

By Jason King

Getting the most success out of your lesbian online dating service will be the difference between staying on your own or finding another lesbian single. The first and most important thing you must do is choose the right dating web site for you. Every good dating service will offer you a free trial, and using these will give you an advantage over your competition.

Your free trials

It's easy to set up a free trial so you can create a profile at a few different services. Just becoming a member to one service will restrict you to what you will find out about your technique of online dating.

Study the results of your personal ad

Joining more than one dating service will allow you to study the results of different sections of your personal ad. You may get contacted more often on a web site that you never thought of even joining. Just because one site appears more popular doesn't mean it will give you the most results.

Try out different photos

You can upload a different photo of yourself onto each of your profiles. You can look at the rate in which your profiles are viewed, and then use the most successful photo on all your profiles. You won't necessarily get the most profile views with the photo you think will be the best. Just make sure they can easily see how you look in all of the photos. And also make sure you're in the photos on your own.

Find out how in demand the service in your area

Another advantage of joining two or three of the lesbian online dating services allows you to see which one has the most singles local to you. You'll have a much larger selection of singles to choose from as well. This leads to you getting contacted more often.

Being a little bit broad minded with your search criteria will offer you a lot more singles in your search results. If you're looking for that flawless lesbian single you won't have much to choose from on any dating service.

Don't pay for your membership too soon

Your free trials will have no time limit. You only need to upgrade when you want to start sending emails to potential dates. And you should only do this at the web site that you feel you're going to get the most responses at.

Upgrading too early can cause you to choose the wrong online dating service, then you'll just give up on your online dating dream.

Enjoy yourself

You must enjoy yourself while you're dating online. When you're having fun the other lesbian singles that you contact and chat to will enjoy themselves. This will make you more accepted which will lead to you creating more new friends, and meeting possible partners. - 15437

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