Sunday, January 11, 2009

Can You Get Your Ex Back

By Johnny Will

You want to get back your ex? You can do that. But if you want to get back your ex now sorry you cant. The centre stage is put for the word NOW. Trying to achieve things in a day is impossible? Moreover your split does not happen in a second it took days to blast of Similarly it would take time to get back your ex immediately.

It takes time and patience: You see, after you parted with your beloved, you both experience a lot of emotions which are very unstable.So taking decisions during this period will only lead to wrong consequences. Be firm in getting your lover back. If you evaluate your love to a greater level, you can sure wait some days.

Being determined does not imply constant debates with your ex: Many people destroy the chances of getting back with their ex by just pleading their lover to give them a chance. I promise you that it will never click off.But in turn it reflects you as a person who is reckless in getting their ex back again Please avoid desperation Did you ever had an encounter with a sales man trying to sell his products. Even if he has some important item, you will never ever consider buying from him just for the trouble he caused you trying to sell. You can see his desperateness to sell the product. Psychologically your mind thinks that when something or somebody is desperate, they become cheap to offer anything. Similarly when you constantly trouble your ex, trying to get them back, it will make them to under rate you. Stop pleading Just be sorry for parting, show your ex how much you respect his/her words. Just put an end here. I know its difficult not to speak with your ex and express your feeling, but resist that feeling. If you need to win back your ex you must control all your feelings.

Divert your mind: If you keep yourself idle, having nothing to do but worry, it is only going hurt you much and eventually you will call up your ex and start arguing. Rather be with your friends, get some gym memberships and start doing exercises. Get going on with some novels (don't go for the romantic one). Keep Off any contact with your ex to the maximum extent.

So, this is the basic measure you should take to reach towards the goal of getting back your ex. This is the time to rebuild yourself and give space for your ex to contact again. But when you call your ex again, you should have lost all that desperate feeling you were having to get your ex back. If you are not ready still, wait for some more time. If you rush up it will ruin things. - 15437

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