Thursday, January 1, 2009

Text, Photo, Enticement: Preparing Outstanding Profile for Men

By Desmond Ray

Part 1: Long-term relationship (searching for a wife)

Photo. Half-naked body on a beach or dressed-up guy behind computer in office would not be the best choice for your personal profile. The best idea of a photo for profile with a serious intent will be one taken in a quiet, homey environment, in armchair, with a cat on your lap. Youve got no cat? Its just to give you an idea. Note: a picture with your past girlfriend will not be a good substitute for a cat. Borrow the animal, or just center the picture at your relaxed, smiling face, that will do it as well.

Text. Clearly, you dont have to write: Gals, I love yah! or I am seeking you, because my life is only work and no play! She would hardly respond to a call from chronic womanizer or chronic workaholic. The fact that you have got a job is good, but one should not forget about the pleasures of life. Unless, after the wedding you want your lady to look for someone more entertaining, while you are sweating at work. Make your words in profile concise: you character features, interests and desires.

Temptation. This depends on what kind of woman you are looking for. Tune her on your wavelength with such phrases, for example, as I will take you, my love, to Paris, and we will spend a week at Louvre. Or, My dream is to awake every morning and hear cheerful giggling of our kids. Or, one more: I cant imagine my life without forest trail and a backpack. These points are needed to give woman an idea on what will be her life with you. If you are seeking a music lover, do not write modestly I love music. Better write something like: I have got blown away by the recent concert of Santana, or Requiem of Mozart makes me cry.

Part 2: Flirt and brief romance (looking for a good time)

Your photo The purpose of your profile is to tell her that you are kind, fun-loving and joy-spreading person, that you will not load her with your problems and all that she will get from you is one or two weeks of a good time. Every picture confirming this statement will work for you. Any combination of you and a symbol of good time, such as you leaning on a limo, driving red Viper, straddling glittering chopper, getting tan on Ipanema beach, opening bottle of Dom Perignon, etc., or just giving your best smile to everyone, will suffice.

Text Do not go deep into the mysteries of your personal life. Brief romance is a brief romance. Prepare her that it will not be long, but sweet. Do not say honestly: I need a partner for intimacy. Even if she is looking just for the same, she will not be fond of an idea that she is chosen for that only. Certain emotional degree of relationship is important for women. She should not be told that you just want her out of a physical need.

Enticement. It will be a good idea to promise something romantic, because, after all, you are calling her for romance. Evenings with sunset and mornings with coffee will do. If you will be gentlemen to the last day, she will be OK with the end of that day. No unfulfilled expectations, no hard feelings, no long-term promises, everyone will go his (her) own way to look for someone else.

Good luck. - 15437

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