Monday, November 10, 2008

Is Your Spouse, Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Cheating? How To Find Out

By Jack Mason

If you suspect that your spouse is being less-than-faithful to you, you are no doubt experiencing a lot of stress. No matter why you suspect them, you have a right to know what is going on. Peroiod. There is an easy way to find out if your husband or wife has been cheating.

As detective work goes, this is child's play. Just a few simple, easy to follow steps are needed. Read on to find out more about these steps which can help you find out just what is going on.

The First Step

First of all, you'll need ten to fifteen minutes alone with your spouse's cellphone. Find a time when you are sure of having it to yourself, so you won't be caught in the act.

Good times are when your spouse steps into the shower or has just headed out to run an errand. This way, you'll be alone for long enough to do this first crucial step.

Once you have gotten their cell phone, grab a pencil and piece of paper.

Locate their call history on the phone and write down all of the outgoing and incoming call numbers. If you see numbers you know, leave them out. Be certain to write down any number you don't recognize, however.

Once this is done, put away the cell phone and walk over to your computer.

The Second Step

Armed with your list, you can have a look into who belongs to those mysterious numbers on your spouse's phone.

A reverse phone look up can often give you much information about someone with only their phone number to work from. Name, address and more can be found about the owner of the phone in question.

Of course, now days it is more likely than not that any given number will be either unlisted or a cellular number. This means that these numbers are not to be found in a phone book.

Fortunately, there are businesses that fork over good money to have access to full records to cell phones and numbers that aren't in the phonebook. They then build databases that anyone can use.

There will be a small fee for using these website's databases, but it is very reasonable. It is well worth it as almost any number can be found through these databases, even unlisted and cell phone numbers.

A good way to save some money is to use a service that charges a "once-only" fee for unlimited searches. You are only charged the one time and can then conduct a search whenever you want. Since your list will have more than one phone number so you do not want to be charged every time you run a search.

After this article, there is a link to a site where you can try a sample search free of charge and see how well these searches perform. You'll be amazed by the information a simple phone number can net you.

For every number on your list of unknown numbers found on your spouse's phone, run a search and keep notes on your findings.

The Last Step

Your final job is to look at the names on your sheet of paper. Is there anything that looks out of the ordinary? Many times people will suspect that their partner is seeing a certain person - do you see any name that falls into that category?

You now at the very least know to whom your spouse has been talking. If you suspect infidelity on their part, this can be a good first step to discovering what is going on.

Investigating your spouse in this manner is easy to do, and can get you started on finding out if your husband or wife is up to no good. - 15437

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