Saturday, November 22, 2008

Could Your Spouse Be Cheating? How To Find Out For Sure!

By Doug Timlin

If you are married or in a relationship, you may have had your suspicions at some point that your spouse was cheating on you. These suspicions can be an awful feeling and they have the ability to make your life a lot more stressful than necessary. There's an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you that we wanted to show you in this quick article.

We wanted to outline this method in a quick article. It's not hard and the best part is that you will get answers quickly without your partner ever knowing what you are doing.

Ready to play detective? Let's get started!

Step Number One - Is Your Spouse Cheating

In this first step, you will need to be a little bit crafty. I say that because you need to find a good time to look at your spouse's cell phone for about 15 minutes without them walking in on you.

Once you have their phone with you, grab a piece of paper as well. You now need to write down every phone number that you see on both the incoming and outgoing call history list that is stored on their phone.

I should point out that you don't need to jot down phone numbers that you recognize - just write down any phone number that isn't familiar to you.

When you are all finished, put the phone back and move on to the next step.

The Second Step - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating?

At this point you will have a list of all the phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. It's time to find out exactly who owns each of the phone numbers that are on your list.

With just someone's phone number, you can find out their full name, address, background information and all sorts of other information. It's pretty incredible how much you can uncover about someone with just their phone number.

The reason that this is possible is that there are companies that put together huge databases with information on all phone numbers. These businesses purchase phone records and then build these databases that you can search through to find out information on any phone number you need to look into.

If you go to the bottom of this article you will find a link where you can try a free sample search and see how this works.

Of course there's a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't something that costs much. You can find companies that will only charge a flat one-time fee for unlimited searches which is your best bet in this case. That way you don't get billed for every phone number you run a search on.

This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup".

You guessed it - you are going to go through the list of phone numbers and find out details about each one. As you do a search on each one, write down the information you find out on the same piece of paper.

Step Number Three - Is Your Spouse Cheating?

Now not only do you have a list of the phone numbers your spouse has called or been called by, but you have full details on who owns each and every one of these phone numbers!

When you know who your spouse has been communicating with it's easy to spot if anything out of the ordinary is happening. That's exactly what you have in front of you, so it's now time to look over your results.

Obviously pay attention to the names that show up and the different calling patterns that you see. In this case, anything suspicious will definitely jump off the page at you.

The great thing about this method is that you an do everything from home and no one will ever know you are running an "investigation". If there is any reason that you suspect that your spouse is acting unfaithfully, then you need to do what it takes to find out for sure. This technique lets you get the answers that you need quickly and easily. Good luck! - 15437

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