Saturday, November 1, 2008

Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back - She's Dating, I've Lost Her!

By Chelsey Sparks

You had been carrying around a hopeful dream of getting your ex girlfriend back. But you found out she has started to date. When you heard the news you were simply overwhelmed with feelings of hopelessness. You knew it was bound to happen, but you were not prepared for the reality of it happening. Sound like you?

It is common for guys to feel that when an ex girlfriend starts dating; this means she has lost feelings for them. Do you feel this way? If so, draw reassurance knowing this is not the case. Dating is not a sign your ex girlfriend no longer has feelings for you. The possibility of getting your ex girlfriend back is very much alive.

A point you should remember is most rebound relationships do not work out. When an ex girlfriend starts to date, this is only a natural part of the breakup cycle. What you need to focus on is the fact you and you ex girlfriend share a past together. This past carries warm memories and feelings.

A lot of elements go into building a relationship. Hard work and dedication combined with bonding and love makes a relationship not easily forgotten, if ever. The memories generated from a relationship provides a great source of hope in getting your ex girlfriend back.

You need to keep your emotions balanced, when your girlfriend hits the dating scene. If you start obsessing over her dating, this will only knock your emotions into a spin making you appear unattractive. This could even damage your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back.

When you find yourself around an ex girlfriend, be sure to act cordial and friendly. Stay away from talk about her dating and any other personal issues that might make the conversation uncomfortable. Be yourself and play it cool.

Seeing you this way will bring forth fond memories of you from special times. Thoughts of you will be on her mind, which can lead to "missing you." Now you are moving forward in the process of getting your ex girlfriend back. - 15437

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